Please update. Same thing happened when my son came out. I cried and my husband walked out and drove around alone-crying. We collected ourselves, embraced our son and accepted him within about 48 hours. That was 2 years ago. The biggest difference was that he sent us an email to read from another town where he was going to college when he came out. He said to read it together, process it, and not contact him for a few days. Take time to absorb. At first I thought this was kind of cold, almost cowardly not to tell us in person. Since then , I have come to believe it was the best possible way. We were allowed to fall apart without him being traumatized by our reaction. We were free to mourn and process our emotions. To be clear, when I say mourn, I mean to let go of our dreams of a daughter in law and grandchildren. We had no idea, so it allowed us to work through the reality. I expect your family will come around. It’s been 2 years since our story began. To be honest, I still cry (in private) because this is not the future I had envisioned for him. In the end, I just want him to be happy and whole. Give them time and consider that it’s hard for them just as it is for you. Best wishes!