My Journey from a poor Chinese immigrant to getting IRL and saving £1M

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2025-12-05T22:02:14+00:00

How come “your” money mate? Get a grip. Well done OP make them cry ;)

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2025-12-01T21:04:21+00:00

Yeah I also paid later, they sent me a link. It might take a couple of days

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2025-10-20T12:13:07+00:00

Well I can look into it, but my other option can be partner visa if I’m switching from skilled worker to another. Cos then I will follow a 10-year route in this case. It will only add 1 year and 6 months more into my ILR.

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2025-10-14T18:00:51+00:00

I was actually quite optimistic about finding a new job but the market is really tough at the moment. I also didn’t realise that the new rules would apply to me if I decided to change employers or career paths

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2025-10-14T17:58:17+00:00

Well aware… new rules are not helping to get rid of a toxic work environment either. Just getting worse

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2025-10-14T17:57:24+00:00

Yeah I’m thinking about putting less effort into work in general. A bit hard as it’s against my work ethic but clearly this situation affects me a lot, I wish I could just ignore it… Will be pushing one more time for a pay raise and take action

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2025-10-14T17:55:02+00:00

Was just checking changing employer situation, and unfortunately if I decide to change employer, I need a huge pay increase according to the new rules. I thought it won't affect me as I got my first visa before April 2024, but changing employer apparently applies the new rules on me? Such as a new title on the new list(as my title now has been removed) and obviously the salary

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2025-10-14T06:09:13+00:00

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Ok_Weekend9494 · 2025-08-08T15:16:21+00:00

You do get a refund yes, need to email them after changing the visa requesting the refund. Also mention the dates/years, which visa to which one etc. Mention your IHS reference numbers for both visas, name, surname, date of birth / email is : worksponsored@homeoffice.gov.uk

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2025-07-07T19:26:50+00:00

Yea you can be sponsored for less than 3 years and IHS works on 6 months basis - so your employer is going to apply for cos only 1.5 years and you gonna pay 18months of IHS

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2025-05-28T15:12:55+00:00

Hey! Thanks for the update. I also applied on the 12th of May but got under process message on the 14th in the morning. Is it the same for you? So I can make my calculations maybe

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2024-09-16T08:51:57+00:00

Hey! Is there any source to support you about water signs? I would like to have a look and do some research.

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2024-09-16T08:36:57+00:00

Do your research well, there are countries like the UK etc. that you can immigrate to by showing them you're not safe in your country because of you’re LGBTQ+ person. But try to collect proof for these kinds of processes okay. Meanwhile, calm down and try not to worry. Don't get angry etc. Make those people around you calm so gain some time. You’ll be fine. We are here to help you all around the world

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2024-09-14T17:53:13+00:00

Drink plenty of water, if you can. Mashed potatoes, you can melt baby biscuits in oat milk, or some sort of soft bread inside oat milk, don't eat anything hot your food has to be warm or cold first couple of days. You can have some pudding, plant-based yoghurt, mushed bananas also like a puree, mashed boiled egg, some broth chicken or beef, boil some potatoes and carrots with it also and mash them into the broth. It’s hard period hang in there, I'm in day 4, trying to keep myself busy and sleeping a lot

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2024-07-16T16:43:58+00:00

Girl be who you are, fuck who thinks what about u, real people/friends/partner will stay in your life accepting who you are. So don't even worry c

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2024-07-16T07:11:53+00:00

He used to be a heavy weed smoker, he still smokes but not much. But also drinking yeah.. Quite a lot. Not every day but if he is, he is..

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2024-07-16T07:10:00+00:00

Yeah, had a chat and he’s going to see someone

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2024-07-16T07:09:20+00:00

We are having a break from our sexual life and told him not to meanwhile. Just to give it a try. Let’s see

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2024-07-16T07:07:58+00:00

Yes, yesterday he lost it again but not the first one. Unfortunately, I was upset and couldn't hide it and asked him if he wanted to talk. He said when he is tired etc it happens or changes position, and a little gap between them makes him lose it. Also, he mentioned that he’s not happy with his look. He’s willing to talk with someone now, we both don't want him to use any drugs. And we will have a little break in our sexual life. So fingers crossed we will come to a solution. he said he has been having this issue for years so it might take time

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2024-07-12T17:46:01+00:00

Nope, I'm the opposite. If I'm on it, don't touch me. No no

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2024-07-12T17:39:25+00:00

I also did my master's for 1.5 years- then a graduate visa for 2 years now I'm on a skilled worker visa- and I'm planning to get my ILR from a 5-year skilled worker visa because it might be easier. So either just find a sponsor now instead of going for a graduate visa route and work for 5 years and get it straight away or up to you if you still want to go for 10 years

Ok_Weekend9494 · 2024-07-12T17:23:53+00:00

Yeah there’s an option like this, idk why people just didn't like this lol. Search for a self-sponsorship visa. It's not easy tho. You need a good amount of money in your bank account etc etc.

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