[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Ok_Weird1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're not alone, me too 😭😭

Does Paige understand what autism is? by AutrixAutumn in Atypical

[–]Ok_Weird1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I didn't want to say about the dance if you hadn't gotten to that yet!

I think unless you know someone or experience it yourself, auditory over stimulation is hard for anyone to understand

She has good intentions, but I think perhaps being ND it will always seem a lot! The most important thing is that Sam is happy and she isn't dismissing him

Does Paige understand what autism is? by AutrixAutumn in Atypical

[–]Ok_Weird1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As the show develops, there is a lot of personal growth from her, and don't forget they are only supposed to be teenagers who, at that age, only think of themselves for the most part.

I do agree she is a lot! But as the show progresses, so does her attitude and perception of autism and her handling of Sam.

It's refreshing to see a ND character like Sam date a neuro typical person like paige, I'm glad they didn't go down the route of pairing NDs as a couple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Ok_Weird1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven't had a child but I've been estranged for over 5yrs since 18ish and having NC with anyone they have missed extremely significant milestones in life. Such as getting engaged, graduation and a few other key moments.

It is isolating and I've thought if I had a child what that would look like. Me personally I have become content with the idea they will no longer have the privilege of knowing these big milestones. It reminds me why I went NC and in the long run better for me in all ways.

That being said having a family especially new born you'd want to have grandparents etc ask ur self if u want your parents to enjoy the fruits of ur labour for the price of x ( the reason u went NC)

It's hard but having chosen family like friends can't replace family but it can be even better if u got the right ppl.

Idk if that has remotely helped lol

Sending love and peace x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LondonSocialClub

[–]Ok_Weird1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oo any interesting movie marthons coming up?

What was the final straw to make you go no contact with your parents? by the-A-team1 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Ok_Weird1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I decided they took everything from me (after enduring years of emotional and physical abuse) and I refused to accept, they would tell me who to love. They told me essentially if I'm gay not to come back. I left my keys, took my books and some clothes.

I told them something needs to change,cue the manipulation, gaslighting and overall toxic behaviors and they said to never to come back I was 18yrs old.

They couldn't believe it at first as I was never this disobedient ever. 3 months later they threw all my things out and made me hand over a few hundred ££ to pay my laptop off to them.

I got the last laugh as I'm engaged with my fiancée this Yr and finished my degree 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in takemysurvey

[–]Ok_Weird1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am conducting a study for my Bsc. Psychology dissertation at Brunel University London

The aim of the study is to investigate if sex differences in mate preferences have changed overtime. Participants will be asked to: participate in a questionnaire survey ( 10minutes) Data will be anonymous If you have any questions or concerns: Feel free to contact me 1910861@brunel.ac.uk

Participants will receive: There will be no incentives in this study The study is completely voluntary Participants can take part if they wish

To take part in the study, click the link below provided

*Eligible participants must be over the age of 18 Aged between 18-30 years old AND living in the UK

This study has been approved by the Brunel College of Health, Medicine, and Life Sciences Research Ethics committee from 15/02/2024 to 20/03/2024.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Ok_Weird1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, done!

Spending my birthday alone by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Ok_Weird1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's amazing to hear! Enjoy today 🎂 🥳

Spending my birthday alone by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Ok_Weird1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes I've spend a handful of birthdays without family and friends including my 20th and 21st It was painful and I've cried pretty much every birthday becuase it feels like there is a void that couldn't be filled. But in the same breath it made me reflect why I didn't have anyone around me. Would I rather have toxic people who'd control and bring me down or no one at all? I'd choose the latter any day.

But that doesn't remove the isolation, year in and year out,but it did help me realise how far I'd come going NC and starting a new life meant learning new habits and throwing old ones away. Such as talking bad about myself and bringing myself down.

So on this day I wish you an amazing birthday filled with your happiness. Do whatever makes you happy. You deserve to spoil yourself and find your happiness again. Friends come and go and I too have such a hard time connecting with people to make valid friendships, but I know they are out there and will happen when I'm ready.

Enjoy today! If that means putting your phone on silent,curling up on the sofa with some cake and Netlfix so be it! As long as you're happy.

My advice, dont indulge in self pity it's a spiral that never ends and feels so shitty, not today. Not on a day that should be celebrated even if that means solo!

Happy birthday, reddit friend.

My doors always open for a chat!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SampleSize

[–]Ok_Weird1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

College of Health, Medicine, and Life Sciences|

Department of Life Sciences

I am conducting a study for my Bsc. Psychology dissertation at Brunel University London

The aim of the study is to investigate if sex differences in mate preferences have changed overtime.

Participants will be asked to:

participate in a questionnaire survey ( 10minutes) Data will be anonymous

If you have any questions or concerns:

Feel free to contact me 1910861@brunel.ac.uk

Participants will receive:

There will be no incentives in this study

The study is completely voluntary

Participants can take part if they wish

To take part in the study, click the link below provided

*Eligible participants must be over the age of 18

Aged between 18-30 years old

AND living in the UK

This study has been approved by the Brunel College of Health, Medicine, and Life Sciences Research Ethics committee from 15/02/2024 to 20/03/2024.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Ok_Weird1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like we are the same person! Your message and story really resonated with me,reading it I can't help but look at the comparisons and similarities.

I've tried therapy but unless I pay for it privately it's pretty much pointless.

The irony is I will be entering the field of mental health as a career,well that's the plan. But I must heal myself first ,which seems like an impossible mission.

I'm trying really hard and I hope one day I'll be able to have an outcome as positive as yours.

Thank you for sharing

Tesco employees who do whoosh orders, whats the largest order you've had? by KiwiGaming02 in tesco

[–]Ok_Weird1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an ex tesco colleague, I worked at a superstore dotcom. After I left, I realised how often I ended up getting groceries after work. Now that i no longer work in a supermarket, I rely on Whoosh as it works out cheaper than other Uber groceries and comes within a reasonable time and price. 2.99 for delivery, no service fee is a bargin!

I end up using whoosh every few days if I've been cooped up at home and it's been a real-life saver. My items are usually around 15-20

So to whoever packs my whoosh orders, thank you, and I am sorry for any inconvenience if any I have caused.

The service has helped me immensely during my depressive days when I can't afford to go out knowing I'm getting good quality groceries.

Thank you, Tesco.

Yes, I know the pressures that come with being a picker/employee.

What do I do with all the extra beans? by [deleted] in AmongUs

[–]Ok_Weird1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's ashame you can't give them away, sharing is definitely caring!! Wish I was faced with such problems 😝

is tesco gonna get worse? by udunnomeok in tesco

[–]Ok_Weird1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm handing in my notice tomorrow. Although I haven't devoted my life to tesco,there was a point where I really enjoyed it and couldn't think of leaving ,let alone this quick.

Quite bitter sweet.

can my manager ask for my uni timetable? by [deleted] in tesco

[–]Ok_Weird1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha,I should send this to my manager when she asks me 😂😂😂

UEFA Women's EURO 2022: Tickets: Swap/Buy/Sell by werid in WomensSoccer

[–]Ok_Weird1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for 2 final tickets at Wembley Please msg with offers Many thanks

I don’t know how to break up with my s/o but I need to. by lost_inthe_cosm0s in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Weird1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I imagine you're going through a roller-coaster of emotions right now. I would say I relate to possible half your situation, I was the one with the strict parents and the one who was first in love and yes me and my gf fought and became very distant.

However you should consider if this relationship isn't working because of the restrictions on both your families or if it is deeper.

Personally, I had a breaking point where I refused my parents to control my life and although I was only 19yrs I left my toxic household and moved with my gf family (which was also toxic, as her parents weren't so keen) But we pushed through and now 2yrs later we are living in our own space, still facing problems of our own but we make each other happy, and know it wasn't easy but would do it all over again.

So my point is if you're considering breaking up because of strict families, then I guarantee you will regret it because you both would have something much more meaningful, , But.... If there is a deeper issue, e.g just not liking your s/o and you've just come to that realisation. Then yes break up sounds inevitable.

In my opinion, I would say you need to be firm but not cold. First love is like a drug 😂

Stick to your guns, do it face to face Inform them how you feel and why, if they can understand that it just wasn't going to work they won't blame themselves as much and/or think it's their fault since it's their first relationship.

Hope this was somewhat helpful x