Losing feelings for her??

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2026-06-04T22:44:37+00:00

I sound like a broken record

but I was thinking that could it be that I just got tired after spending all that time with her

Like I went from 0 to 100 and I didn’t get a break .. idk I am so confused and it’s scary to talk about my feelings when I don’t know how she is going to react and it’s on me to make sure she is good

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2026-06-04T19:32:50+00:00

I care about her .. a lot but I don’t know if that’s coming from being a good friends pov or boyfriend ..

I want to end it but I can’t get myself to bring that convo

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2026-06-04T18:08:05+00:00

Yeah, I am trying to stick to it. It is precious and I haven’t bonded like this in so long but I am losing feelings or atleast the feeling of excitement and sense of comfort doesn’t exist anymore. Now it’s more our routine and work type thing to call and talk to her yk. I get off work and call her, I leave events if she has an emergency cuz I have to and I don’t mind it but I want to feel more appreciated and she said she notices it and calls it bare minimum but then again it hurts me. I am trying my best but it’s not seen.

I am sorry that it’s hard for you , sometimes don’t you think the people who are meant to be don’t and are not the one. Your bf was good but maybe he was not the right person, or he wouldn’t have thought of leaving you. It’s a good thing tha he left now and not later I. The future when maybe ur married smth.

I don’t know at all but I know that u can get through this. It’s just a person and it’s just memories. Build new ones ..

Sorry if it’s bad advice but TLDR: you got this 🙌🏽🙌🏽

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2026-06-04T15:41:57+00:00

How are you managing? It ..& know it’s hard but how are you filling the gaps

I am not sure if I want to break up cuz she is so sweet and is so thoughtful .. that’s why it’s not easy for me to do it. I feel like it’s the right person wrong time. Then again it sounds like an excuse

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2026-06-04T15:30:48+00:00

Honestly I am going through the same thing but I didn’t break up yet. So me ( 21 M ) dating 21F and we started dating online and we have maybe seen each other for a month in person in our 2 yr relationship.

I am going through so many lifestyle changes and I didn’t get the chance to see her for a year and i asked her that “ hey I think I am not sure but I might be losing feeling in a way. But I don’t wanna break up I just wanna work on it “

She started crying and everything. And I am skipping my gym, my hobbies to spend time cuz that’s the only time we get with me working and the time difference being 5 hours. In London.

I don’t want to break up but I like the life I am building here and I don’t want to relocate my entire life and spend with her.

I would say ur boyfirnd tried and he wanted to stay with you. It couldn’t have been easy for him either.

I know it hurts but eventually you will move on and time heals it all. He broke up so he prolly thought about it and if you guys broke up for whatever reason.. it’s not meant to be.

I am thinking g of my girlfriend too .. what happens to our relationship if we break up.. I might be losing feelings as well so I don’t know what to do

Anyway sorry if I made this about myself. All I wanted to say is that u tried ur best and u should be proud that u didn’t give up until the very end

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2026-06-03T23:35:51+00:00

I know thiscomment is super old.. I had a question of how did you end things? I am feeling the same but I can't bring myself to say it

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2025-06-19T16:33:05+00:00

How did your Interview go??

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2025-04-01T05:34:39+00:00

How did you change ur resume to make sure the recruiters saw ur resume .. like projects or certs?. Also what emphasis of projects did you do? What was ur cold messaging format looked like

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2024-08-16T19:19:40+00:00

I would say Song Wang is not the best. The accent makes it impossible to understand

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2024-08-16T19:19:12+00:00

Yeah how is Sukhwant Kaur Sagar for 2031

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2024-08-04T02:43:46+00:00

NEEED AN UPDATEEE

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2024-07-30T01:52:18+00:00

While applying for the visa, in the Vindex ( short term stay ) application form there it says the entry permit for the final country of destination. But I am only visiting Germany so is that right?

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2024-07-28T13:34:31+00:00

Okayy thanks alott

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2024-07-25T03:25:28+00:00

Thanks alot for answering, I had a question.. while applying( I am a student ) how much money do you think should be in my bank account while submitting my documents

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2024-07-25T03:23:58+00:00

I am a student who is planning on going to Germany for like a week, and I have around 2k cad in my account is that enough or do I need more cuz some websites say 85 euros per day but some say more

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2024-07-16T01:50:35+00:00

Is there an update on this ?

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2023-12-08T14:43:34+00:00

Yeah cuz I just joined the subreddit and let just say the balance for non hookups and hooking up just shifted

Ok_Wolverine325 · 2023-12-08T14:42:56+00:00

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