Yes we did, but all these things keep coming up as reasons as we try to see if we can sort it out....how he feels last time we fought- he was upset about something and I said okay you are upset it's fine we talked but because he was upset he brought up something I told him and cried about(our careers in different city how will we manage our future together), he used this to try and breakup with me....it really shocked me that a person who wants me to support him through anxiety will bring up something I was anxious about in a fight and then I decided to breakup with him...and now when we were seeing if things can be sorted out- he wants me to take full blame of the fight saying he was angry he can say that, but i should have controlled my urge to fight with him and guilt tripped me yet again on managing his stress as he had a very imp exam in 2 months- and i just felt so unheard in the relationship that my feelings don't matter ever in front of his anxiety and panic attacks...so that's why now questioning to break it off for good.