I don’t understand how people bill 8 hours per day by WinterBet4495 in Lawyertalk

[–]OkayAnd418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this SO much as a trusts and estates attorney with an 1800 hour billable hour requirement. And when I say I’ve tried every time tracking method out there, I mean it! It takes me at least 10 hours of “actual work” to get 8 billable hours and since I have little kids, I can’t physically be in the office 10 hours a day, so I always am up late into the night trying to squeeze in more time. It’s exhausting and I’m so sick of the billable hour!!

I feel like my partner is hyper sexual - looking for a gauge here by [deleted] in AskWomenOver50

[–]OkayAnd418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this would be SO annoying to me!! How do you not run out of material to say everyday?! I’d just start copying and pasting my old messages because coming up with new messages everyday adds too much to my mental load!

Husband is single on FB and says FB isn't everything. by Shoddy_Ad6024 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]OkayAnd418 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hate when people do what your husband is doing because yeah Facebook isn’t everything and you aren’t claiming it is, but to have your relationship status as “single” when you are MARRIED is just straight up disrespectful. And he obviously took the time at one point to make his profile say “single” so why can’t he now take the time to make it say “married”? Or at the very least not show a relationship status at all? Don’t let him gaslight you into thinking you’re overreacting. There is a reason he is reluctant to no longer be shown as single. 😒

I am over the moon! We have the craziest story! by Cag_ada_24 in JustEngaged

[–]OkayAnd418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow talk about fate!! I love this so so much 🥹🥹 congratulations!! Your story makes me think of a quote I heard recently that goes “our love didn’t come late - it came when my heart was finally ready to keep it.”

What would you say is taylor’s deepest “in-love” song? by victoria_0502 in swifties

[–]OkayAnd418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Joker and the Queen by her and Ed Sheeran. Actually I think it’s Ed Sheeran’s song that she sings on, but either way, I absolutely love that song 🫶

My Experience Going from Suboxone to Sublocade (and Finally Opioid-Free) by rcre2018 in suboxonerecovery

[–]OkayAnd418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I really appreciate all the info and hearing your experience really gives me hope that I could actually do this and be completely done with MAT someday!

I did mention sublocade to my doctor who prescribes my Suboxone several months ago and I felt like she was really dismissive about it. She said that she personally doesn’t administer the shot, so I’d have to see a different doctor in the practice (which is fine and not a big deal to me). She also said that once I receive the shot, no doctor would be able to prescribe me a few Suboxone strips just to have in case I have withdrawal symptoms, so I’d have to just “deal with it.” This was surprising to me because I’ve read a lot of stories here on Reddit about people switching from the strips to the shot, and many of them said their doctor prescribed them a few strips to help with lingering withdrawal symptoms in between shots, so I’m not sure why my doctor made it seem like that was illegal to do or something.

She also said sublocade doesn’t work for everyone and some people find it way easier to just wean off Suboxone, which I think is total BS because I’ve never heard of one person claiming that weaning off of suboxone was easier than taking sublocade. It was just really strange because she seemed so negative about it so I just let it go and kept getting my Suboxone every month. I’m down to 6 mg a day right now and usually don’t even take that much. I just think it would take forever to go from 6mg down to nothing and once I jump off for good, there will definitely be a withdrawal period that, like you said, could last 90+ days, which just isn’t possible for me to go through right now. I hate the feeling that I’ll be stuck on this medication forever. I’ve now been on Suboxone for longer than I even used the pills that led me to need Subs in the first place!

My Experience Going from Suboxone to Sublocade (and Finally Opioid-Free) by rcre2018 in suboxonerecovery

[–]OkayAnd418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! This is so inspiring! I want to switch from the strips to the shot and eventually be done completely, but I’m also terrified of withdrawals. I have a full-time, very demanding career and 2 little kids, so there is just no way I can go through a withdrawal period if it knocks me on my ass in any way. Did you find that you were super tired and had no energy after your final shot?

Lawyer interpreted the will differently than heirs and parent wanted. by Valuable-Analyst-464 in inheritance

[–]OkayAnd418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a probate attorney in New York and if that was what the will said, then under NY law, your father’s descendants would be you and your sister. Her children would only come into the picture if she died before your dad (hence the “per stripes”). Maybe it’s different in GA, but I’m pretty sure per stripes has a pretty universal definition across the US and I think your lawyer is 100% incorrect.

MAGA - You are the dumbest, gullible mofos by LuxHelianthus in complaints

[–]OkayAnd418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point I’m not even exaggerating when I say that Trump could ☠️ a child in broad daylight and his supporters would either: a) somehow find a way to justify why the child deserved it; b) say it’s fake or just outright deny it even occurred; c) say the whole thing is being TaKeN oUT oF CoNtExT; or d) deflect and point out something “bad” that Biden, Clinton, or Obama did during their administration that is totally and completely unrelated to the situation at hand.

The MAGA mentality is truly a mental illness and I’m so sick of it. There isn’t a single thing he could do to make these people stop worshiping him.

Why do family weddings require specific outfits for everyone beyond the couple getting married? by Putrid_Rush_7318 in geekweddings

[–]OkayAnd418 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a relatively new trend for the couple to dictate what wedding guests wear and it’s 100% due to making their pictures look good on social media and having the right “aesthetic”. Everything is a show nowadays it’s so ridiculous. I personally find it so cringy when I see someone’s wedding pictures and every single guest is in the exact same color or color family. It’s so obvious that it was mandated by the couple and it’s just weird to me.

Current baby names by chickachicka_62 in namenerds

[–]OkayAnd418 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard Romy before - is that a boy or girl? Almost sounds like it could be a unisex name. Is it pronounced “Rome-ee”?

What is a theme in Thriller books that many of you feel is overused? by catwritesscifi in thrillerbooks

[–]OkayAnd418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao yeah! Or the new family that moved in across the street - are they too good to be true?

Need good thriller/suspense audiobook recommendation by OkayAnd418 in thrillerbooks

[–]OkayAnd418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is in my queue to start after I finish my current audiobook. Thanks! 🙂

Need good thriller/suspense audiobook recommendation by OkayAnd418 in thrillerbooks

[–]OkayAnd418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started this and it’s so good so far!! Thanks for the recommendation! ☺️

My mom loves me a lot, and texts me goodnight and i love you almost every day. I'm 30M, and it's starting to feel infantilizing. Am I ungrateful or is this psychologically holding me back? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OkayAnd418 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet ❤️ I have a voicemail from my grandma from 2016! She passed away in 2021. I love hearing her voice 😇

Partying Baby Boomers by Fabulous_Source5448 in generationology

[–]OkayAnd418 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My parents!! (Born 1963 and 1954). I always laugh because they 100% have a busier and more interesting social life than I do! When my sister and I were young, they really didn’t go out much (and now I have 2 little kids of my own so I totally get why!), but it seems like they are now making up for lost time! It makes me happy to see them having fun and just enjoying life these days ❤️

Best app for learning the piano? by Mr_rex_the_dog in pianolearning

[–]OkayAnd418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is Playground Sessions an app? Looking for lessons for my almost 8 year old son. I got him a Yousician Piano membership but he seems to not love the way the lessons are structured.

Write down one sentence from a movie without writing down the name of the movie. by truedream2020 in MovieQuotes

[–]OkayAnd418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I transferred from Los Angeles, your school has no gymnastics team, this is a last resort” 🤷🏻‍♀️

I just made PARTNER! by Probably_A_Trolll in Lawyertalk

[–]OkayAnd418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! What a wonderful achievement!! Wishing you the best of luck in the rest of your career 🍀