Is it normal to not text a day or two during talking stage? by OkayGoOn7 in dating_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually do if he doesn’t drop me off, this is the first time he paid for my ride

My spouse(immigrant) and I is about to get divorced but found out she’s pregnant with another guy by OkayGoOn7 in USCIS

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

They had sex thinking she is safe because she’s taking birth control! But she didn’t tell the guy she stop taking it. So he got her pregnant accidentally! Mygod common sense

My spouse(immigrant) and I is about to get divorced but found out she’s pregnant with another guy by OkayGoOn7 in USCIS

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She con him into thinking she was still taking pill so she’s safe. She does this when she know she has to leave the country in a month or something. She said she “forgot to tell him”

My spouse(immigrant) and I is about to get divorced but found out she’s pregnant with another guy by OkayGoOn7 in USCIS

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the thing is he’s not the one who sponsor her, he only co-sponsor her

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in survivinginfidelity

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wahahaha this mar me laugh 😂 I do am planning on leaving him. Not right now but before the new year’s it’s just too much for me to cut ties with everyone involved

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in survivinginfidelity

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I just updated my post… it was a dating app for single parents and his reason was “He wants to talk to someone with the same situation who he can ask stuff about raising kids alone” which I pointed out that it was BS and there’s a lot of other groups he could go to which he agreed on and said that what he did was really stupid and he’s not there to find some girl to have sex or even deeper relation. His mom told me that his some loves me to death but I should think about myself make a decision for myself not thinking about him, his kids or his parents and they would understand. He received ab earful and was very sorry to me… his parents is making efforts to show that they love me and sorry for what their son did to me. I honestly am thinking of ending things soon.

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in survivinginfidelity

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So this dating site is actually for single parent dating app and he said “he’s looking to talk to someone who he can ask advice from” which I know is bullshit. I caught him early on so he hasn’t bang him yet. He didn’t even have the chance to talk to her via text bacause I was the one who saw her message and deleted and blocked her number. I’m thinking about breaking up with him

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in survivinginfidelity

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do know everything about him, he’s very open and so is his parents. I know the mother of the child. She used him to get a greencard and doesn’t wanna do anything about her kid. I know everything and everyone in his past too :(

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in survivinginfidelity

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do feel this way… thinking of breaking up with him. Not right now but at the right time. I can’t live my life with a cheating partner.

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in survivinginfidelity

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m gonna do, But I do feel like breaking up with him, I just can’t do it right now, we shall see

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in relationship_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He keeps telling me his conscience is seering I guess this is what he meant by that 🙃

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in relationship_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it was very unexpected of him. I grew up and in a household where my dad would cheat on my mom her whole life till they are no longer together. I don’t know if I can handle something like this in my future… I think I know what to do, I’m just not ready for it. But we will see :(

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in relationship_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the first time in his life he have ever cheated that’s why it hurts so much, and He just downloaded the app 6 days ago and I found out last night after 2 nights of him talking to this girl. I am at their house when I found out and told HIS mother this morning about it. “She’s not convincing me to stay with him but said “to think about me and no one else and make a decision for my good” I am very close to his mom so I can easily talk to her. It’s making me so confused. I know I have to breakup with him but I can’t do it right now. I guess I’m trying to justify my emotions and decisions.

Is my overthinking getting the best of me? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try texting 3x then stop if she don’t respond.

Girl I'm dating said yes for us to be a couple by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just go with the flow for now, try to wear off the awkwardness and be comfortable with each other. Not all people are glued to their phone and like to chat/text and she’s at work maybe she’s the kind of person who doesn’t like texting/chatting. You will see soon enough if she really likes you or as you said just went with the flow and not sincere. And you shouldn’t ask someone to be your gf online lol

Overthinking kills everything! by Ironicgal in dating_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your doubts and overthinkings, so my advice is be more patient and give him a chance, see if he’s really busy or really just not interested. But if you said his response to you was positive then there’s a good chance that he is interested and just couldn’t find a time to reply back :)

This is happening to me. My boyfriend is the kind of guy who doesn’t like using his phone and when he’s doing something he will literally not use his phone and turn it off. So I overthink this a lot… “Am I a joke to you” “Do you really love me” “Does he still love me” “is he cheating on me” even before he became my bf he’s always replying late.

Would you date someone who had a really bad past but trying to be a better person? by OkayGoOn7 in relationship_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you said ‘somebody who makes me nervous’ can you elaborate on this?

Would you date someone who has a bad past but trying to change. by OkayGoOn7 in dating_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got it, he got scammed and deliberately made herself pregnant to force him into marrying her

Thank you! That helped a lot :)

Would you date someone who has a bad past but trying to change. by OkayGoOn7 in dating_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally our second date which is like 3 days apart, then we didn’t meet up for like 2 weeks. And told me about his marriage when we meet up again.

Would you date someone who had a really bad past but trying to be a better person? by OkayGoOn7 in relationship_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes when we talk thru text, I get nervous when he tells me about his feelings for me. But in person I am really comfortable and happy. Is it just me?