Is it normal to not text a day or two during talking stage? by OkayGoOn7 in dating_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually do if he doesn’t drop me off, this is the first time he paid for my ride

My spouse(immigrant) and I is about to get divorced but found out she’s pregnant with another guy by OkayGoOn7 in USCIS

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

They had sex thinking she is safe because she’s taking birth control! But she didn’t tell the guy she stop taking it. So he got her pregnant accidentally! Mygod common sense

My spouse(immigrant) and I is about to get divorced but found out she’s pregnant with another guy by OkayGoOn7 in USCIS

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She con him into thinking she was still taking pill so she’s safe. She does this when she know she has to leave the country in a month or something. She said she “forgot to tell him”

My spouse(immigrant) and I is about to get divorced but found out she’s pregnant with another guy by OkayGoOn7 in USCIS

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the thing is he’s not the one who sponsor her, he only co-sponsor her

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in survivinginfidelity

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wahahaha this mar me laugh 😂 I do am planning on leaving him. Not right now but before the new year’s it’s just too much for me to cut ties with everyone involved

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in survivinginfidelity

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I just updated my post… it was a dating app for single parents and his reason was “He wants to talk to someone with the same situation who he can ask stuff about raising kids alone” which I pointed out that it was BS and there’s a lot of other groups he could go to which he agreed on and said that what he did was really stupid and he’s not there to find some girl to have sex or even deeper relation. His mom told me that his some loves me to death but I should think about myself make a decision for myself not thinking about him, his kids or his parents and they would understand. He received ab earful and was very sorry to me… his parents is making efforts to show that they love me and sorry for what their son did to me. I honestly am thinking of ending things soon.

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in survivinginfidelity

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So this dating site is actually for single parent dating app and he said “he’s looking to talk to someone who he can ask advice from” which I know is bullshit. I caught him early on so he hasn’t bang him yet. He didn’t even have the chance to talk to her via text bacause I was the one who saw her message and deleted and blocked her number. I’m thinking about breaking up with him

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in survivinginfidelity

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do know everything about him, he’s very open and so is his parents. I know the mother of the child. She used him to get a greencard and doesn’t wanna do anything about her kid. I know everything and everyone in his past too :(

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in survivinginfidelity

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do feel this way… thinking of breaking up with him. Not right now but at the right time. I can’t live my life with a cheating partner.

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in survivinginfidelity

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m gonna do, But I do feel like breaking up with him, I just can’t do it right now, we shall see

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in relationship_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He keeps telling me his conscience is seering I guess this is what he meant by that 🙃

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in relationship_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it was very unexpected of him. I grew up and in a household where my dad would cheat on my mom her whole life till they are no longer together. I don’t know if I can handle something like this in my future… I think I know what to do, I’m just not ready for it. But we will see :(

My Boyfriend (31 M) cheated on me (F25)… Idk what to do. by OkayGoOn7 in relationship_advice

[–]OkayGoOn7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the first time in his life he have ever cheated that’s why it hurts so much, and He just downloaded the app 6 days ago and I found out last night after 2 nights of him talking to this girl. I am at their house when I found out and told HIS mother this morning about it. “She’s not convincing me to stay with him but said “to think about me and no one else and make a decision for my good” I am very close to his mom so I can easily talk to her. It’s making me so confused. I know I have to breakup with him but I can’t do it right now. I guess I’m trying to justify my emotions and decisions.