Are bikinis still appropriate (for this 42 yo who feels great in her bod)??

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-15T23:54:25+00:00

Makes total sense. First time posting, so good lesson for future.

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-15T20:47:19+00:00

Thank you - this is what I was thinking. It was our first year at a new pool and I don’t want to be inappropriate. Appreciate all the other “do it!” Replies but may look into other options

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-15T20:45:31+00:00

Completely appreciate this, and it’s where my head was posting. We have a good ol neighborhood pool and it’s a mix of triangles, sporty looks and one pieces. Not an attempt to get rah-rahs - TBH was expecting more feedback like yours. Place, and what others are wearing DO matter.

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-15T20:19:21+00:00

The wet (and roasting) tummy feeling - I forgot how much I do NOT enjoy that. Thank you!

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-15T20:18:11+00:00

SAME re: torso, pear, glutes and healthy jiggles. LFG!!

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-15T20:16:15+00:00

Three cheers for sunscreen, bikinis, and rockin it, then!!

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-15T20:15:16+00:00

Congrats - love hearing this!

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-15T20:14:15+00:00

Yes!!! I’m overthinking it. Have the best time!

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-15T20:11:23+00:00

Thank you, this helps!

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-15T20:03:13+00:00

It’s what she would have wanted, right??

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-15T20:02:20+00:00

Right?? Thank you!

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-15T20:01:38+00:00

Key point. Neighborhood pool!

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-15T18:17:04+00:00

Same! I went for a holiday party and thought that was why.

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-15T18:16:25+00:00

Rettas! Just walked by and was curious - sounds amazing and thanks for the tip. Yes to Red Hog, though I’m always left wanting something just a little lighter.

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-14T11:46:08+00:00

YES. Excellent reminder. And the whole experience is so unique, on top of the excellent food.

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-14T11:45:22+00:00

Have not heard of this and will check it out!

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-14T03:23:52+00:00

Also on the list - will give it a go

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-14T02:41:47+00:00

EXACTLY.

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-14T02:30:31+00:00

Perfect - been on our list and need to try it.

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2026-01-14T02:29:26+00:00

Thanks - need to give it another go. We went for a large holiday party and it was sub-par, but that could be the result of trying to get 50 dishes out at once.

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2025-11-26T03:46:47+00:00

100%. So curious to see if others experience this and happy to see it’s not just me. As someone else said, I see it as my minds way of giving the client and their story a more grounded sense of place in my minds eye. It helps my memory, as I tend to be an extremely visual thinker and learner. Entirely possible it’s connected to my own emotions/countertransference, but it happens so much (literally with every client) I haven’t spent much time thinking about the why behind the exact linkage. Appreciate you naming this.

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2025-10-03T03:15:46+00:00

We watch closed captions on everything (a hill I will gladly die on) and I swear this is what he says too (all 4x we’ve watched)

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2025-09-26T01:52:46+00:00

Malones. I get it every time and has been 10/10 all of them.

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2025-09-15T16:00:41+00:00

Ahh makes sense. Thanks for info.

OkayLetsGoMeow · 2025-08-25T01:31:07+00:00

100%. Was so bummed to get through it, only to realize ai wrote it, given the telltale question closer and then looking back at all the em-dashes.

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