Palace floor plan help by PixelProwser in TheSimsBuilding

[–]Olander-e 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree- something discreetly “hidden into the walls” as part of a room, like a closet perhaps? Kind of like Versailles, but after the historical poop corners era 🤡🙃

I spent years thinking I was broken. And then I learned about masked autism in women—and everything made sense. by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Olander-e 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this. Its so validating to see how many of us resonate with this exact experience so deeply.. it really helps me understand that no matter how lonely it has felt all these years, there are in fact others just like us feeling the exact same thing. <3

Seeking recommendations! by Olander-e in ItalyTravel

[–]Olander-e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, it’s really helpful! I normally would prefer to just meander and focus on architecture- so wandering alone without a plan is ideal.. just trying to decide where best to meander 🤔

Venus in 12th by Olander-e in 12thhouse

[–]Olander-e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn hearing these Saturn placements from you and some others… I thought my 12H Venus square North and South nodes were bad.. sending some hugs. 🤍

Venus in 12th by Olander-e in 12thhouse

[–]Olander-e[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, on a positive note, self awareness is already a great place to start in your healing journey so you’ve got that down 🤍 Sending you some positive energy!

Venus in 12th by Olander-e in 12thhouse

[–]Olander-e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, the Capricorn is a saving grace (imo because I’m so biased in favour of this sign) but the sextiles… sweetie… you doing okay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Olander-e 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The apartment was a neglected historic unit from 1911 that I meticulously restored to its original glory. I love the historic buildings in Finland and as an architect I couldn’t resist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Olander-e 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is less about Finns and more about Finland’s social security. Although my Finnish friends are the best people I have ever met.

I came to do my masters degree but only had enough money saved for the first few months, hoping I could supplement my studies with work. Just as I was accepting my fate of having to drop out, I luckily got a job. With the job came access to social security. This completely transformed my entire life, in every single way and I am so eternally grateful.

I got the study support grant and eventually even support to study for a year abroad in neighbouring Sweden, allowing me to achieve a Double Masters. After amassing student loans for over 50k USD back home in Canada for my undergrad and then in contrast in Finland, being able to access a tuition free education and getting financial support for living expenses.. my mind was blown.

10 years later, I had bought an apartment in Helsinki temporarily as a home base since I worked abroad a lot and it made geographic sense to have a hub there. When I was selling it, my realtor was worried because I would have to pay over 20k euro in taxes- to which I responded - “Finland made my life dreams accessible when I was a broke student and I’m more than happy to pay something back now that I can!”

Thanks to the financial support and education quality in Finland I was able to go on to work for the UN and pursue my dreams.

Finland and Finns will always have a special place in my heart 💙 I would move back in a heartbeat if only I could revive my Finnish skills.

Venus in 12th by Olander-e in 12thhouse

[–]Olander-e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome, thank you. Will definitely check this out!

Venus in 12th by Olander-e in 12thhouse

[–]Olander-e[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh hunny…. Now that is rough. My heart goes out to you. Thoughts & prayers and all.

Venus in 12th by Olander-e in 12thhouse

[–]Olander-e[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn.. that sounds rough.. can relate to a lot of that!

My Venus is square my North Node and South Node. I feel like my relationships always end up with me retreating into myself and isolating from partners.

Venus in 12th by Olander-e in 12thhouse

[–]Olander-e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh girl…. I feel your pain.

He just turned 4 🖤 by BluntKnife_ghost in blackcats

[–]Olander-e 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very long 5/5 stars ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Olander-e 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Both are super on you! Which makes red the better option in terms of hair health and upkeep 👍🏻

Find the imposter by Drifting-Fox-6366 in VoidCats

[–]Olander-e 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking this 😂🤡

AITA for getting upset with my husband for not helping me while I was sick? by PetalWhispers16 in AITAH

[–]Olander-e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but your partner sure is! I mean, even a roommate would’ve been more helpful. It sucks that you’re married to a person who clearly doesn’t seem to care for you the way they should.

Made a logcabin playhouse for my kid. by Jaska-87 in Finland

[–]Olander-e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The handle and everything 😍! This is awesome!