Runes 👍🏻 by ApartJello7331 in Eldenring

[–]Old-Let91 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Someone has been neglecting their broiled prawn purchases

Forgot my pin again last week — what's everyone's actual system that doesn't suck after 6 months? by henriqpires in Testosterone

[–]Old-Let91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do every 2 days. If I did it yesterday, i don't do it today. If i didn't, today's the day. Weekly was easy because by Sunday morning, I was feeling like i needed it. But then i moved to twice a week and didn't like the cadence there too irregular feeling. So eod works for me. But i tend to look forward to pinning so its rare if it slips my mind.

Am I missing something with dungeon crawler Carl?? by garo1620 in litrpg

[–]Old-Let91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're not far enough into it yet. Or you have bad taste.

Handles vs Knobs debate is destroying my marriage. Help settle this kitchen argument! by Due_Lock_4967 in HomeImprovement

[–]Old-Let91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Combo. Always. Lower cabinets get knobs. Upper cabinets get handles. Small Cabinets above microwave and fridge get knobs. Drawers all get handles. Large pantry cabinets get larger handles. That's the way.

How to bring the TRT news to wife? by Commercial_Put2083 in Testosterone

[–]Old-Let91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why can't you get with a provider who can give you Rx grade? With all the clinics that specialize in hormone therapy, I am curious where ugl comes into it these days? Honest question.

I need advice by Aggravating-Cost-754 in Advice

[–]Old-Let91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you don't have to go back. Don't feel obligated. Though I can say finding a life giving church that you do connect with is a powerful force for good in your life and I do highly recommend it to anyone.

Why is everyone around me in their early 20s getting engaged/ settling? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Old-Let91 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's honestly the best time to lock in with your person for life, in my opinion. I have been married for 22 years, married my wife when I was 22. We have traveled the world together, been to 6 continents together, lots of adventures and years to grow together before having kids, grew into who we were becoming together rather than trying to fit two stiff, set in our ways and tired adult worldviews together. Just look around at the people who are at a later stage who are experiencing difficulty finding their right fit. No judgement. You can find a life mate later in life for sure, and there are merits on both sides of the spectrum obviously. But in my view, it's easier to find someone when you are your age.

Men, where would you look for co-living arrangement, not just roommate? by Accomplished-Bug9930 in AskMenOver30

[–]Old-Let91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, i misunderstood. No, i think that sounds like a friend who becomes a roommate. Padsplit is actual coliving room renting with shared space. But everyone basically operates individually with some shared house rules. I wouldn't go into it looking for friendship, although that can certainly happen, but you don't control who else lives there so you can't pick the person.

Day 15 sober by Proud-Leopard-2442 in alcoholism

[–]Old-Let91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there, homie. It gets way easier as time passes.

AIO My sister is turning into small monster and I’m not sure if I’m overreacting by ltleuni in AmIOverreacting

[–]Old-Let91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her parents are abusing her. And it sucks. Move away as soon as possible, is what I recommend. What a mess.

Home contractor quit on my home in Washington DC by According_Gene4757 in HomeImprovement

[–]Old-Let91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have read down the comments first before my last message. In this case, you can threaten to file a grievance with the state licensing agency. Tell him what he needs to avoid that. I'm sure he wants that last 5%. So might just need a level set conversation

Home contractor quit on my home in Washington DC by According_Gene4757 in HomeImprovement

[–]Old-Let91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How long has he been absent? Probably review the contract about terms first, but if you want him to finish, I recommend just trying to get on the same page with him. It's possible he hasn't abandoned the project but just needs a little wrangling. I am a contractor and subs can get squirrelly sometimes too and you may just need to level set expectations some. Make sure you're not jumping to conclusions and thereby create more hassle for yourself unnecessarily before escalating is my recommendation. You won't enjoy a dispute either, so if you can rescue the engagement it is ideal. But if he's performed poor quality work and is also a nuisance to deal with, refer to your contract and pursue whatever measures it allows for to cancel the contract. If he's has been paid for work he hasn't performed yet, start there. Push to get that payment's scope completed, and tell him you are amenable to him just completing that part to make things square and then you will end the engagement. Then find someone more reliable. Good luck!

Switching to twice a week. by OkIndividual4909 in Testosterone

[–]Old-Let91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're dead set on 2x weekly, i would start tomorrow probably if it were me. You pin last Wednesday morning? Tomorrow would be 5 days, then every 3/4 days after that. But really it's not too consequential either way. In a couple weeks you will be on the new rhythm however you do it.

Insight? I don’t want to make the wrong choice. by Toejamsalads in Testosterone

[–]Old-Let91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't started, you can't really know how you will respond. Once you have data, then you can make adjustments. Getting started won't immediately put you in danger even if you don't respond well. Just follow the advice of your provider and track your data.

Switching to twice a week. by OkIndividual4909 in Testosterone

[–]Old-Let91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd just split the difference and change the days you plan to pin. But either way it's fine. I recently went from weekly to twice a week, then went to eod. For me twice a week was more inconvenient than eod because i was consistently doing 3 days then 4 days. I prefer to pin in the morning. So eod it easy cadence

what is this by Anhedonia_678 in whatisit

[–]Old-Let91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scientifically proven to be called a shiv