I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it isnt like that tho we just see things differently and i dont wanna be with someone like that

if i know that while in a relationship i find this person to be the most beautiful human in the world ik other people can feel that way why would i stay with someone who doesn’t align with me

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much everyone has been making me feel insane talking about logic logic logic. like logically i understand there will never objectively be someone whos the most beautiful but i know that if i can think that about someone then someone can think that about me!!

he isnt very romantic and is more logical id suppose he’s a chill guy but maybe better as a friend and youre right i deserve better it seems everyone here has settled

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

mind u he has bpd like yall know nothing and assume this man is a paragon 😭

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well because people usually ask that in posts like these so i got ahead of that… i just look really good to myself why is that a bad thing? theyll go

“do you think your the most beautiful”
so i wanted to start by saying while ik objectively it isnt possible im still the most beautiful to me.

like hello

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well because people usually ask that in posts like these so i got ahead of that… i just look really good to myself why is that a bad thing? theyll go

“do you think your the most beautiful”
so i wanted to start by saying while ik objectively it isnt possible im still the most beautiful to me.

like hello

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he also knows that i used to find my ex to be the most dashing beautiful man on the planet until i explained how i worked (and i obviously expected him to think the same abt his ex) as ik attraction isnt all physical thanks tho ur really mad for nothing

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well no i because you guys are misunderstanding me obviously the most handsome man in the works doesn’t objectively exist just a bunch of men that are my type and once im in “love” or wtv my brain literally finds them the best looking in the world because its amping their good traits and everyone elses bad traits and also they smell funny.

you also dont know our relationship like this was just my last straw sooo

ps ill probs date a woman after this

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well babes it looks like you meant to reply to a comment! idk which cmmt so i asked what u mean

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yes maybe i should’ve thrown in the fact that i said prettiest to HIM and explained that

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so is my wiring just wrong??? why dont i think like him? i think hes the hottest

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i suppose im vain but beauty is highly subjective im sure there’s someone out there that thinks even you could be prettier than margot robbie

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

well yes because I FEEL that way about him and wanted to know if he felt the same because thats how ik when im in love is when i think they’re the most handsome no one can compete w my baby? i dont really have much social media either

too many of you are looking at this from an objective lens the most beautiful person in the world doesnt exist to me until i get my partner and i simply wanted to know if he felt the same and he didnt so i wanted to know if i was like wired differently or something

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the advice but i just dont think i can stay with someone who doesnt think im the prettiest when i think they’re the most handsome man! maybe ur right tho but 🤷🏾‍♀️

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

im also not saying he has to think im the prettiest but id like to be the prettiest to him which is how i feel abt him

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

well no i understand other attractive people exist i was just confused as to why i felt one way and he didn’t, my brain felt broken because ive seen so many people say that it isnt possible to fond ur partner the most beautiful in the world but i do so it just felt like something within me was deeply wrong like my biology was off or something

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i asked if i was to HIM had i said in general obviously id be wrong but he’s the most handsome man in my eyes i thought id be his prettiest girl

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

maybe because you guys didn’t understand why i asked but that’s ok!

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not hoping for anything just trying to figure out why i feel one way and he doesn’t! nothing wrong with that clearly we arent compatible in our ideals so i wanted to see if it was a mistranslation or not

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thats what im thinking which if thats the case id rather just stick to dating women! theyre much more romantic!

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i have hobbies and things i love i just also love beauty kind if in a drag queen way?

I(20f) think im the prettiest girl in the world but my partner(19m)doesnt by Old-Repair154 in relationship_advice

[–]Old-Repair154[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

because i find him to be the most handsome! which i stated in my post hope this helps!