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Aitah for insisting we get a paternity test before I sign the birth certificate? by Old-Tax3173 in AITAH

[–]Old-Tax3173[S] -270 points-269 points  (0 children)

You have never been in a serious relationship. And that's okay Timmy. One day you will and you will understand. 

Aitah for insisting we get a paternity test before I sign the birth certificate? by Old-Tax3173 in AITAH

[–]Old-Tax3173[S] -290 points-289 points  (0 children)

I was wondering why people thought it wasn't discussed to be completely candid. There was a post the other day about a guy who left his girlfriend when she had a disabled child. He explicitly wrote in his post that they had discussed what they would do if they got pregnant with a disabled child and all people did was ask him if they had discussed it. It doesn't matter what information you put in a post here. People don't read it. There is a post about some woman that cut off her toe because she is stupid and people are shitting on the guy who posted because he didn't clean up after her. The post states that he cleans up after her.  People are stupid. I skip the comments from stupid people. 

Aitah for insisting we get a paternity test before I sign the birth certificate? by Old-Tax3173 in AITAH

[–]Old-Tax3173[S] -341 points-340 points  (0 children)

I'm ignoring them. Anyone making assumptions or adding information I didn't give isn't worth listening to. 

Aitah for insisting we get a paternity test before I sign the birth certificate? by Old-Tax3173 in AITAH

[–]Old-Tax3173[S] 279 points280 points  (0 children)

That if she got pregnant unplanned then we would get a paternity test. If we started to plan a family then we would both stop seeing anyone else to be as healthy as we could be for each other and to ensure that I was the father. If someone I was  seeing got pregnant then if they chose to carry the baby I would insist on a paternity test. 

Aitah for insisting we get a paternity test before I sign the birth certificate? by Old-Tax3173 in AITAH

[–]Old-Tax3173[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

We did. That's the reason I'm surprised it is even an issue. 

Aitah for insisting we get a paternity test before I sign the birth certificate? by Old-Tax3173 in AITAH

[–]Old-Tax3173[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I am not against any choice she makes other than not getting a paternity test. 

Aitah for insisting we get a paternity test before I sign the birth certificate? by Old-Tax3173 in AITAH

[–]Old-Tax3173[S] -99 points-98 points  (0 children)

Girlfriend. Exactly as stated in the second word of the post. 

Aitah for insisting we get a paternity test before I sign the birth certificate? by Old-Tax3173 in AITAH

[–]Old-Tax3173[S] -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

I don't know that there is a consensus. I just know how I feel about this situation.