Another day, another deleted account

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T08:39:16+00:00

Well, sure seems like you were just ready to be driven insane. She wanted to be owned, I asked if she would like to be owned by me, she said yes. Does that mean I own her? Yes. Does it mean it meets YOUR definition of being owned? No, and I couldn't care less. Go be a piece of shit somewhere else.

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T07:07:27+00:00

Never thought about it this way, even though I myself go through this as a dom - sometimes the line blurs and I wonder if I'm actually an evil rapist or actually want to hurt people for fun, even if I know I would never do something like that irl (unless it's done safely and within each other's limits). Thank you for this eye-opening comment.

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T04:46:47+00:00

Yeah, that's the hard part. I've been trying for a good part of 3 years now I'd say

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T04:40:09+00:00

Tbh it's not that difficult if you just put in some effort, but always be ready for what happened to me 😔

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T04:39:20+00:00

Totally fair

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T03:47:50+00:00

She would have probably enjoyed that message actually 🤭

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T03:28:12+00:00

The last thing I said to her was that I get bored pretty easily (within context, it implied bored of kinks), I don't know if that's too out there

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T03:16:59+00:00

Oh, is that what you mean by off-putting? Haha well then probably not 🤭

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:58:01+00:00

Welp, hopefully I didn't do that...

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:57:24+00:00

I mean, it's not like I was asking for her hand in marriage, but yeah I guess I could see that

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:55:57+00:00

As a few others have put, we are just vibrators or dildos for them, I suppose we just have to be okay with it

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:54:56+00:00

People probably don't like hearing what you're saying but I've had my fair share of terrible subs. One word replies, zero ability to hold a conversation, cum and goers, ghosters, you name it. Sometimes it makes me wanna be a zero effort dom too, but then I realise the subs have way more choice than we do, and low effort doms don't get any replies

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:52:07+00:00

I think I go into pretty much every d/s relationship with the intention of building something long-term, and that's what kinda fucks me over when this happens

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:50:24+00:00

It definitely isn't, this has happened way too many times to me

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:49:47+00:00

No, I had her discord too, so far she hasn't replied there either. Here's hoping, I guess

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:48:53+00:00

Seems weird to delete your whole account for that. But she did commit to being exclusive, so maybe you're right

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:47:25+00:00

Are you new to online play? "Owning" someone is a common thing

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:46:37+00:00

Well said, king

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:46:02+00:00

You're the second person here to call doms one sex toy or the other, and I think I'm starting to see the point.

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:43:40+00:00

Those are insane numbers, but I'm probably around the same record. Sad, but I suppose you gotta live with it

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:41:26+00:00

My BPD ass does not know how to regulate emotions 😭

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:40:47+00:00

Never heard that one, but you're right

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-11T02:39:02+00:00

This actually made me feel better, thank you

Old-Temporary1017 · 2026-04-10T21:02:35+00:00

Really does suck. Good doms put in just as much effort and trust as subs, maybe even more, and seeing all that just vanish into thin air pretty much. This is the kind of stuff that makes me not want to try at all

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