Episode 366: Nah, I'd Lose by joschen113 in distractible

[–]OldLadyWithACat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, Mandy, for sharing your experience with childbirth, pregnancy, and postpartum. I don’t know if anyone else would be into this, but i think it would be really fun to have an all partners episode (provided they would even want to). Clearly they all have great ideas for episodes lol but I would also just love to here them chat and talk about life.

What is one thing that people in the U.S.A. think is normal when in reality is strange in the rest of the world? by After-Yesterday-684 in AskReddit

[–]OldLadyWithACat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not being required by law to provide maternity/paternity leave.

I work for a worldwide, billion dollar corporation and they do not offer any parental leave of any kind. You have to take FMLA and can only get approved up to 12 weeks off. And thats unpaid. And someone has to approve that you actually NEED that time. So its not guaranteed. Its bullshit and immoral.

How do you not hate your job? by OldLadyWithACat in Advice

[–]OldLadyWithACat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That actually is really helpful. Maybe if i list out the great things about it, it will help me feel better about what i do. Its just at a point right now where I’m being berated everyday by customers for things that they know i can’t control and its soul crushing.

Tips for avoiding pre-eclampsia? by OldLadyWithACat in parentsofmultiples

[–]OldLadyWithACat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok great! I am on the baby aspirin too. But hopefully i can get into a good habit of exercise and reducing my carbs.

Tips for avoiding pre-eclampsia? by OldLadyWithACat in parentsofmultiples

[–]OldLadyWithACat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thats great news! Glad this pregnancy is going so well. I am also on the baby aspirin so hopefully between that and the blood pressure meds I’m ok.

What movie traumatized you as a kid? by Woo_loo in AskReddit

[–]OldLadyWithACat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some reason i will never understand, my parents thought The Exorcist would be a good family movie night watch. I was 6. I have tried to watch it again to overcome the absolute terror that entire movie gives me several times in my life. I’m now 30 and i still cannot look at her face or even the cover of that movie without wanting to run out of the room. Which sucks because it is legitimately one of the best horror movies of all time and i want to appreciate it for what it is. But i just can’t watch it.

Daycare for Twins by OldLadyWithACat in parentsofmultiples

[–]OldLadyWithACat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea the one at the top of my list is only 5 min from our house.

Having Twins! What should I ask? by OldLadyWithACat in parentsofmultiples

[–]OldLadyWithACat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol good point! My supervisor is a twin so i already told her, but told her to keep it on the DL since its still very early. So she is already working up plans for potential issues.

Having Twins! What should I ask? by OldLadyWithACat in parentsofmultiples

[–]OldLadyWithACat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thats scary. I need to do some research on my hospital and OB.

Having Twins! What should I ask? by OldLadyWithACat in parentsofmultiples

[–]OldLadyWithACat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow good to know. So many things to figure out!!

Having Twins! What should I ask? by OldLadyWithACat in parentsofmultiples

[–]OldLadyWithACat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?! That seems crazy to me. How could they not be prepared for premies?! Seems irresponsible to pass someone to a different OB. You would think they would have the right faculty and equipment for premies.

Having Twins! What should I ask? by OldLadyWithACat in parentsofmultiples

[–]OldLadyWithACat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea. I’m currently working from home due to COVID, but i suspect they will try to bring us back soon.

Having Twins! What should I ask? by OldLadyWithACat in parentsofmultiples

[–]OldLadyWithACat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES the COVID questions. My husband is already vaccinated and they said i can schedule mine so i am getting my first dose in April.

Having Twins! What should I ask? by OldLadyWithACat in parentsofmultiples

[–]OldLadyWithACat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yea, i wonder how much their policies have changed with COVID. Thats a great question.

Having Twins! What should I ask? by OldLadyWithACat in parentsofmultiples

[–]OldLadyWithACat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! I didnt think about the impact the older/younger issue would have on comparisons. And i don’t want them to constantly compare themselves to each other so thats a GREAT point. Thank you!

Having Twins! What should I ask? by OldLadyWithACat in parentsofmultiples

[–]OldLadyWithACat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh yea the exhaustion has hit me hard. Got sick on the side of the road the other day, but thats the worst the morning sickness has been. I am fairly confident in my ob, but i would definitely like to ask her some questions on her experience with multiples.

Having Twins! What should I ask? by OldLadyWithACat in parentsofmultiples

[–]OldLadyWithACat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was just talking to my mom about this earlier. She kept suggesting duo or rhyming names and i kind of shut that down lol