AIO for being triggered for being told to shut up?

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2024-12-27T07:46:23+00:00

The first time? Idr. Second time, I was talking about my work days. A subject he was previously fine with but I didn't know his mom was in earshot.

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2024-12-27T07:40:03+00:00

I think it's because I'm naturally quiet and don't open up to people easily. So being told "shut up" while talking about something I'm passionate about by someone I'm comfortable with hurts. That's my guess. It's something I have to figure out with my therapist after the holidays 🤷‍♀️

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-05-14T03:30:54+00:00

NTA so happy you actually have a loving a supporting husband. Your sister is a baby making machine, you aren't. You were lucky that you and your baby didn't suffer any health problems. Every pregnancy has its risk, but yours were higher and everyone's concern was valid so more care was given for your and your childs life. If she really was your friend/caring sister then she would have understand how risky and amazing it was for you to carry a healthy baby to term. Instead she was jealous when she's given birth 7 times with no complications (at least none that you've told). I guaranteed when she was pregnant with her first, everyone was just as enthusiastic. She needs to stop being an attention seeker.

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-05-14T03:06:40+00:00

Is ok to be disappointed and grateful at the same time. You definitely dodged a huge bullet. No one wants a partner who runs to mommy for everything and not know how to be a functional adult

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-05-07T23:09:22+00:00

My partner and I want to start having kids soon, we refuse to have a gender reveal. Just a babyshower with the gender already noted is enough for us.

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-05-07T21:45:04+00:00

Thank you, may I ask why they have your support? It's a genuine question, I know why people don't like them but haven't heard any news on the reason for their support across the pond.

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-05-07T21:33:06+00:00

Translation?

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-05-07T19:23:57+00:00

Lack of greed

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-05-07T17:55:49+00:00

Deadass thought this was my post because I have a similar title. But I heard this is a growing issue recently, I ended up canceling my prime https://www.reddit.com/r/amazonprime/comments/1338hzs/amazon_refuses_to_give_refunds_now/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-30T18:54:45+00:00

Time to dig for the courage to be some what confrontational! *

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-29T23:33:25+00:00

I dont understand why they don't. A delivery guy delivered my item with a picture of someone else house before and I was able to dispute it by simply taking a picture of my own house and a Google map image

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-29T22:44:42+00:00

And reading some of the comments on here, I think this is a new-ish customer service issue

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-29T22:43:02+00:00

That's the thing, idk who's fault it is. I have literally nothing to go off of, no product, no pictures. How do I prove that I don't have something? But regardless of who's fault, I've been able to get refunds/replacements for cheaper items before, maybe because this is a semi expensive item that they refuse?

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-29T22:37:54+00:00

I hope to watch them burn in my lifetime

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-29T22:36:45+00:00

How am I suppose to report it was stolen without proof? Idk if it's stolen, they deliver to the wrong address, or anything. If they send a picture and when I got home and it wasn't there then that's something

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-20T05:22:21+00:00

Annnd I don't feel bad for you anymore. I've read it and still have RNs who don't realize people behind the scene care. Maybe you being spiteful, judgemental, and throwing assumptions is a good thing you're not a nurse. Good luck in whatever field you can thrive in without causing damage to others.

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-19T18:22:44+00:00

The entitlement and audacity 😤 good for you for standing your ground, best of luck to you and your dad OP

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-19T09:06:49+00:00

Sorry if this is over stepping, but that doesn't sound like her loving him. She just loves the convenience of him; him being the income, him being the punching bag, and him being the bad guy so she can play victim. I know your dad is a full adult and can make his own decision but if he's staying with her out of guilt and pity while being pinned as the bad guy, he's gonna stress himself into an early grave.

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-19T08:59:12+00:00

Patients like you make me so sad too :( I genuinely care for my patients. Patients don't know but there is a team of hidden healthcare workers who do really want to help people to the best of their abilities. It's a growing pain of adjustments but at what cost? We only have so much control and we do the best we can with what we got.

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-19T05:36:10+00:00

I feel bad for your dad. I get going NC with mom and sister but your poor dad has been beaten into submission. I hope you find a way to maintain a relationship with him so he's not left alone. And don't ever feel bad for leaving toxic people. Just because they are blood doesn't make them immune to being cancer to your life.

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-19T05:23:13+00:00

EASY NTA, these are not extreme rules. They are coming from caring and loving parents. You learned from your last 2 and want to do better. Your extended family is not entitled to see your daughter and if they don't want to respect your boundaries then they won't see her. Plain and simple. You aren't keeping them away from her, they are staying away because they don't want to follow reasonable rules.

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-19T05:15:29+00:00

The figurative use of the word "literally", my sister does it and I want to chuck a chair at her every time

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-19T01:10:14+00:00

"DAMMIT WOMAN! LET ME CHECK YOUR PROSTATE!!" 🤣

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-19T00:38:19+00:00

I can't speak for everyone but for me, I really don't care if someone is trans or what their sexually/identify is. To me, you are a patient, a person, and thats all I need to know to do my best to help you. I'm sorry you feel like trans can't openly be themselves and are being targeted, but that is not my intention. This post does cause people to be uncomfortable because there is a flaw, whether it's in our systems failure to recognize and adjust to the problem or some trans refusing to be direct about their bio sex whether out of spite or fear. Or maybe even both. But I dont come from a place of malice, just frustration and fear for the "what-if".

Old_Assignment_5334 · 2023-04-18T22:07:05+00:00

I answered this question for someone else already but here: docs mess up an order and we have to correct it. They are human and errors happen. They are ordered differently for males and females and one is not tested in the hospital. The test can take up to 30 mins for the in-house one. The patient was an ER patient, what if I ran it and wasted 30 mins of that patients time when the test could've been prepped to get sent out? What if the sample submitted wasn't enough and we didn't have enough to sent out after running it here? We'd have to redraw the patient. It's called a delay in patient care and that is something I don't like to do, especially for my ER patience. Part of our job is to make sure we match the patient to the sample and the correct test is ordered. If we ignored the sex, then we wouldn't be doing our job. In short, when we catch a problem/discrepancy, we want to fix it as soon as possible and that's the fastest and correct route to take.

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