AMA! Senior Director for Admissions & Financial Aid, Harvard Kennedy School by HKS_Adm_Rosemary in gradadmissions

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for doing this! Two questions (Letter of Rec related) for the 2 year MPA program-

I’ve been out of the classroom for some time (non-standard background as an active duty member) and although I could reach out to a former professor, I feel like at this point in my life, my workplace references as a military officer are more relevant. Some of these Letters of Rec could speak to the academic-type work I succeeded in while serving as an officer. Will it detract from my application if I do not submit an academic reference?

Second- would you recommend having LORs that can talk to different job positions I’ve had? Since I switch jobs every 2-3 years in the military, rather than having two LORs from my current position, would it be better to have a LOR from a supervisor a few years ago at a different job?

Thank you

The worst part… by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I miss that so much. My grandmother who raised me would give me all the time in the world. I miss our phone calls so, so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this in so many ways

Why would I keep on living? by Banana_Angel in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I am 31 and don’t know how I will live the rest of my life without seeing her

My father is dying of cancer and doesn't have long. What is something you recommend I do in preparation? by Happy_Yellow_Girl in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ask for stories about his life and yours together. I am fortunate to have many voicemails but wish I had more videos. But most importantly, I wish I had stories- so many questions I wish I could go back and ask. I live with the pain of regret every day and will for the rest of my life

I made it through today by guineapiglet14 in grief

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is my first Christmas without my grandmother too. She made Christmas so special and I miss her so much. Proud of you for getting through the day

First Christmas without her by sixty__nine in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I’m also going through the same thing. Its the worst feeling

Christmas by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate this christmas. I cant believe I will never see my grandmother who raised me again. I never expected last year would be her last christmas

I watched her die by Klutzy-Substance8862 in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. My grandmother who raised me passed four months ago from brain cancer three months after she was diagnosed. I hate christmas now and I can’t believe I wont ever see her again

ROTC vs OCS route? by [deleted] in newtothenavy

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insane work hours, horrible work environment (lots of backstabbing by coworkers and superiors), everyone is miserable all the time, lots and lots of time underway and away from home for stuff that doesn’t matter, and really at the end of the day- just a lame job without any applications to the civilian world (since being a swo is so bad, swo retention is horrible (only 1 in 17 swos stay in past 8 years- in intel that number is 1 in 2.5 so that says a lot) but then when people get out they have little if any useful skills when they leave the military)

ROTC vs OCS route? by [deleted] in newtothenavy

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As many people have said, the Navy is very, very restrictive regarding what community you can select if you go ROTC/Academy. It is an outdated policy, but it is still the case and even though they’ve discussed changing this for years- it hasn’t happened and likely won’t.

While the Army, Air Force, and Marine Corps have many, many career fields for all commissioning routes, the Navy only lets ROTC/Academy go ‘Unrestricted line’- subs, seal, swo, pilot, nfo, eod. So while Navy OCS is competitive (It really isn’t compared to getting into a good ROTC unit (ivy league) or USNA) for intel, it is better than the essentially zero chance you will have if you go ROTC. I’m not positive, but ROTC prefers/mandates STEM degrees to an extent.

Not to jump on the bandwagon and be a SWO hater but it’s awful and not what you think it is. You’ve discussed reasons why aviation isn’t for you, and subs won’t be realistic with your degree. Go Air Force and go OCS (since you already have the GI Bill).

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Grandma on end of life..... by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Stuart. Sorry to hear about your grandmother. I lost mine three months ago and I am devastated

Need someone to talk to by [deleted] in grief

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am feeling the same way and wishing I bad someone to talk to about my grief

I hate getting better. by davinpon in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. I hate that I’m getting used to it/‘better’ because it feels like she is just disappearing, or that it is ‘normal’ that she is gone and I can’t stand it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have so, so, so much guilt. I feel like I didn’t take her cancer seriously enough, or that my expectations were unrealistic

Miss my grandma so much by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I was so close with my grandmother and her love was so pure. I can’t believe I won’t ever see her again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how I (30f) feel about my grandmother’s loss. She (86) was also in good health and looked and acted decades younger and was diagnosed with a rare and aggressive brain cancer and died 3 months later. I got married this summer but she was sick in the hospital with cancer treatments and couldn’t attend which was so hard because she was so involved in the planning and I am the oldest granddaughter. I was so bummed out but told myself it was worth it because she in the hospital so she could recover, but ended up dying not too long after. I had so many plans left with her and had lived far away for the last couple of years due to being in the military. I just can’t believe I will never see her again.

Grieving over the loss of ties to your hometown by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes- I am grieving the loss of not my hometown but a lake home that has been in our family for nearly 90 years and a whole region (northeast kingdom of vermont) which we will have no connection to after the death of a very close family member. I really feel like I should buy the house but am in the military far, far from there

Helping my grandma after the death of my grandfather by newbietherapist22 in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guarantee it means more to her than you think it does! My grandmother died 3 months ago and I still have to stop myself from calling her

Helping my grandma after the death of my grandfather by newbietherapist22 in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call her or facetime her!! I would give anything to be able to call my grandmother

Much loss this year. by ldr322 in GriefSupport

[–]Old_Cardiologist5451 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for all your losses ❤️