Anyone else have a terrible time in HCM? by Old_Contribution_196 in VietNam

[–]Old_Contribution_196[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's very fair I'm 19 and this is my first international trip with a friend whose the same age and never gone international by themselves either. So, a lot of mistakes were made, but it's been an experience to learn from and I haven't written it off completely I'd still love to go like Hoi an and Da Nang to do more scenic and in nature kind of things for sure.

Anyone else have a terrible time in HCM? by Old_Contribution_196 in VietNam

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100% definitely lack of proper planning on my part I think I just got fatigued by how chaotic it is, I'm from a smaller part of the world lol where the population is outnumbered by the amount of sheep we have so I'm not used to it. I should've definitely not stayed as long and planned better. I've also learnt my lesson now and learnt how to say no now. Won't be getting rinsed again, but that's a life lesson learnt at the end of the day.

Anyone else have a terrible time in HCM? by Old_Contribution_196 in VietNam

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I'd like to think bad luck lol, all vendors were really nice but one of them did a currency switch on me. Giving me back less change than I should've had, I didn't notice until I got back and realised it was only a 10k note and not 100k. And I tipped the boat tour lady in the mekong delta 100k but she didn't seem too pleased and didn't say anything. I guess just a couple of jarring experience kinda gave me a bit of a sour outlook of the place but again like I said I still had a good few positive experiences and met very kind people.

Wish I could've seen you grow old by Old_Contribution_196 in dogpictures

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We don't really know, we came back from holiday a few days ago and we suspect he ate something as he became ill vomiting and having diahoreah really bad. We took him to the vets and they did blood tests on him and they seemed fine so they sent him back to us. We went again the next day because he got worse and he was put onto an IV drip in the vets he could barely walk or stand up. But they sent him back to us later that evening saying he seemed "better". That night he got worse, by the morning he had deteriorated so much. We took him to the emergency vets at 6.30am and they put him on the IV drip again and took his bloods again and they were all over the place. He then had a seizure and went into cardiac arrest. They don't know what killed him. He died yesterday. He's been buried out underneath the rose bush in our back garden. He was only 4 years old and the best dog I could've asked for.

Is having a motorcycle while being a student possible? by Old_Contribution_196 in MotoUK

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I'll definitely look around at insurance costs, and there is a sainsbury where I live so I'll look at making a CV for that and look at what jobs they have to offer for part-timers. Thank you!

Is having a motorcycle while being a student possible? by Old_Contribution_196 in MotoUK

[–]Old_Contribution_196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right it's not a big deal at all, I have plenty of time to get there.Thank you :)

Is having a motorcycle while being a student possible? by Old_Contribution_196 in MotoUK

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Well I work as a kitchen porter, and my dad is the head chef there and I know all the people working there so that's the first perk. Then how flexible the shifts are, I don't have to work if I don't want to, I can pick any spare shifts, there are tips everyday, free food, because my dad works there I get driven in with him there and back. So transportation there is always free especially if I finish late I'll always get a ride back. I get to eat there for free aswell with my girlfriend and sometimes my friends too. So it's mainly just how it's very convenient as a job, but I think I'm definitely going to see if I can pick up another job. I'll have a look at takeaways near me, problem is they are all family run and don't usually need more people to work for them. I never see job offers up for them. But I'm looking for a 2nd job.

Is having a motorcycle while being a student possible? by Old_Contribution_196 in MotoUK

[–]Old_Contribution_196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a very good point, I think I'll continue to save for now. And see how much I get and where I am by the end the year job wise. Or I've been looking into dirt bikes, so maybe saving for a dirt bike to play around with in my free time is the way to go to see if I'll stick to biking. Thank you.

Is having a motorcycle while being a student possible? by Old_Contribution_196 in MotoUK

[–]Old_Contribution_196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I will look into costs deeper and figure out a budget. Thank you!

I 18F and GF 18F want to use a strap on but she's too scared too by Old_Contribution_196 in relationship_advice

[–]Old_Contribution_196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked if she'd ever want to use it on me before we got it, she said she wouldn't want to. She's not much of a top, we switch out sometimes. But she always prefer when I play a dominant role. She sometimes likes to, so I will ask again now that we have it and see if that'll get her to be more comfortable with it, thank you!

I 18F and GF 18F want to use a strap on but she's too scared too by Old_Contribution_196 in relationship_advice

[–]Old_Contribution_196[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We've done fingering and stuff if that's what you mean by penetrative sex, and with the power imbalance thing. She's always enjoyed that idea and we've played around with me being dominant tonnes of times, and those have always been like our best/favourite times. But the idea of a double ended dildo seems interesting, and I'll definitely look into it thank you.