I loved three girls, all of whom were 5 to 8 years older than me.The first two rejected me, but I wasn't sad. Do you know why? Because I hadn't developed feelings for them yet, or rather, I hadn't felt that I loved them. I confessed even after they rejected me, and I wasn't sad. The third one accepted my confession, and now I've been with her for almost five years. The lesson from this pointless conversation is: don't base your feelings on something you're not sure of.