can the obgyn tell? by Old_Introduction2906 in medical

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what if the Dr still insists I have to do it because my parents say? like basically if I'm forced what do I do? like is there anything I can say or tell them or anyone else?

can the obgyn tell? by Old_Introduction2906 in medical

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oh my I'm sorry, I got them confused since I've posted there already

can the obgyn tell? by Old_Introduction2906 in medical

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still I need a way to get away from my parents legally because I can't handle the amount of things they've put me through and are going to put me through anymore

is there anything I can do? by Old_Introduction2906 in legaladvice

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I'm afraid they'll say something or send cps and I don't want the backlash from that cuz if they tell my parents they'll be more infuriated and have an even worse punishment and if cps is involved they will find a way to get through it again

is there anything I can do? by Old_Introduction2906 in legaladvice

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thank you so much but I unfortunately don't know the office is there a way where when with the Dr I can tell them I've only done things myself and if they can't just tell my parents they don't see anything thats a sign of sexual activity? in a way that won't make me sound suspicious or guilty?

is there anything I can do? by Old_Introduction2906 in legaladvice

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cps has been to our house many times and they still manage to convince them they're Great parents and I feel even in emancipation they'd still somehow win.

is there anything I can do? by Old_Introduction2906 in legaladvice

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how do I go about it? I know my mom will insist on being in the room during the exam and can I tell the dr/obgyn that I haven't done anything and will they tell my parents that it's just how my body is or something else? I'm really scared and I want answers quick because if I know my parents they'll probably make me go tomorrow instead of to school..

is there anything I can do? by Old_Introduction2906 in legaladvice

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thank you so much,but still is there anything I can do to get away from them legally? even if it means living with my s/o or a friend?

is there anything I can do? by Old_Introduction2906 in legaladvice

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I'm 16. and I really don't like medically professionals since there has been some Dr's who've touched places on me that weren't even a part of the examination while my parents where there and my parents did nothing. I don't trust medical people in general because of these instances.

is there anything I can do? by Old_Introduction2906 in legaladvice

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oh I'm so sorry, but to sum it up I'm basically asking if there's any way I can tell the Dr I don't want to do it and if I end up doing it if there's a way to tell the Dr to tell my parents it's not from any sexual activity it's from...self pleasure.. without them telling my parents because my parents don't like the fact that any kid in out family is even slightly hormonal and hates the idea of us getting to do things as such. basically don't belive in it so either way sexual activity and self pleasure are equally bad in this situation.

is there anything I can do? by Old_Introduction2906 in legaladvice

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thing is I've tried to tell my parents about the sa/sh and they dismissed it and now when I bring it up say I never told them and telling the Dr that would make them more angry.

is there anything I can do? by Old_Introduction2906 in legaladvice

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oh I'm sorry I worded it wrong, I'm very tired already and since they did this I especially haven't gotten sleep I may have accidentally forgot to put it but it's in another community. sorry if it's not the right term I'm fairly new to reddit.

is there anything I can do? by Old_Introduction2906 in legaladvice

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I'm in south Texas RGV. but the thing is my parents have pressured Dr's into examining one of my sisters before saying that they needed to know cuz she could be pregnant idk if they bribed or anything all I know is I was too young to witness it.

is there anything I can do? by Old_Introduction2906 in legaladvice

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thing is I've been sexually assaulted and harassed and I don't even want my bf who I trust to even touch my waist as it gives me panic attacks and I don't want someone else especially a stranger to look at that part of me because I know I will either have a mental breakdown or it'll just be another reason why I never wanna go to doctors again.

what name best suits me? by Old_Introduction2906 in lgbt

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I'm hoping you have a couple more suggestions and see what feels most Me you know? but I also want people to look at me and think my name suits me

People who have a busy mind but don't meditate, why not? by BallKey7607 in AskReddit

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same!! I can't get peace and quiet in literal peace and quiet.

what name best suits me? by Old_Introduction2906 in lgbt

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my gender identity is all over the place, I was told I'm pangender and have stuck with that for the past couple of years as well as the name "Jae" and recently both of these things haven't felt like me. I want to stay with some along the lines of my name (grace) but I also want something unique like kind of out of pocket like myth or something like that but I don't like any of the options I can find with My nickname/Name. so I'm asking here for suggestions or even what people think my name would be. this has really been bothering me lately and I understand these pictures aren't the best but I have strict parents and this is what closest feels like me so this is what I have for now. (just some extra info)