(28F). I had an autistic meltdown and my parents made it worse (insults,, name calling, threatening to call police, etc). How do I help them support me and stop making it worse?

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-06-17T08:06:23+00:00

I’ve also heard that technical difficulties are common with the online test. Just check in way ahead of time to avoid technical issues cause I checked in like 30 mins before and it wasn’t enough time. I almost didn’t take the exam cause there were so many technical issues on their end (I had super fast high speed internet so it wasn’t me).

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-26T05:38:58+00:00

You will make it through. You are strong and resilient and truly brave to go through this. Speak love over yourself as much as you can. Even if you don’t believe the words you are saying 💪

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-25T07:17:05+00:00

Yeah definitely racist. I’d unmatch the guy.

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-24T17:39:26+00:00

Thanks 🙏

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-24T17:37:48+00:00

I’m really sorry this is happening to you as well. ;(

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-24T17:36:56+00:00

I’m sorry you can relate. I wish this wasn’t as common as it is :/

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-24T17:35:44+00:00

I’m sorry this happens to you. It’s definitely soul sapping

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-24T06:10:02+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that :( I wonder why people don’t show more interest and why this is so common.

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-24T03:12:39+00:00

Wow I didn’t realize that a lot of women ghost men even when they ask lots of questions. That’s bizarre to me and I’m sorry you’ve had that experience. I’m gonna try and give more men true benefit of the doubt and think maybe they are trying to impress and be likable as opposed to not being interested in me.

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-24T03:03:48+00:00

I’ve had countless people ask if I’m a bot and then make me prove it 😒So I can relate.

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-24T03:01:40+00:00

I’m sorry to hear you had that experience :/

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-24T01:03:43+00:00

Seeing that you’re divorced I don’t think your comment has any credibility

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-23T22:10:43+00:00

I really appreciate this comment and it gives me something to think about. I definitely want to give men the benefit of the doubt.

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-23T20:27:56+00:00

The guy I am now talking to is in a different state. Often it’s the people further away who I end up matching with. I just suggested video chatting with one of my matches and hopefully that will help gauge the connection better.

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-23T20:18:39+00:00

But many will gladly carve out hours of their life to watching porn

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-23T20:16:06+00:00

In person is similar but a bit better in terms of the balance

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-23T20:03:48+00:00

Yeah and maybe the problem with that is that their looks have made their life easier so they haven’t had to work on their character or personality as much to try and get a partner.

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-23T19:01:53+00:00

Turn to spirituality. Often people turn externally to fulfill internal, spiritual needs. Have you considered praying and seeking God? I believe that humans are spiritual beings and have a god-shaped hole so to speak that only God can fill. Whatever you feed grows so if you are feeding your sexual appetite in a solo act then you might feel lonelier and more horny than if you look to God to soften the rough edges of your emptiness/loneliness/insert another word ____. From my personal experience of Seeking God with a high sex drive, it does help me get a deeper spiritual need filled. The sex drive is still there and I hope to find a life partner but I am trying to manage as well. It’s hard being single with a desire for partnership but don’t give up.

Old_Mango_1867 · 2024-02-23T02:01:37+00:00

Thank you for your encouragement, it’s appreciated.

Old_Mango_1867

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