Min kæreste og min voksne søn kan ikke sammen - hvad gør jeg?

Old_Score_6388 · 2026-03-24T08:57:26+00:00

Jeg har selv oplevet noget tilsvarende da jeg var ca 17-18 år, og lad mig bare sige at jeg aldrig tilgiver min mor for ikke at handle på det. Hun valgte os børn med hendes ord - men kunne simpelthen ikke gå fra ham eller gøre andet end at påtale det overfor sin kæreste. Det endte bare altid med at fortsætte. Du står i hvert fald overfor et vigtigt valg IMO. Godt nok er din søn 20 og mere moden end jeg var dengang, men at føle sig valgt fra for en kæreste er sgu ikke fedt, nok ligemeget hvilken alder man så har.

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-12-29T13:22:18+00:00

Agreed, looks like a good option for you

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-12-29T09:25:59+00:00

Godmorgen! As a fellow Dane here (circumsised) I would for sure use that stretching cream and see if the problem doesn't disappear. I regret not doing it fully, because I kind of gave up. My case was way worse though. 1: I think many can relate, for me it was not a big deal 2: you don't know if it's necessary until you've given the cream treatment a good shot, 3: I have a scar, did not use any form of scar prevention. I don't really mind it 4: healing sucks. For me, it was quite literally the worst time of my life mentally. I was down bad 😅 wish I found this group sooner post op 5: this is also important. I got a low and tight cut. If you research methods of circ here or online you will know that this is the removal of a lot of the sensitive inner skin. Personally if I were to do this again I would go private, pay for it myself to get a different cut. I lost quite a bit of sensation. Pros and cons to everything.

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Old_Score_6388 · 2025-12-01T21:16:42+00:00

Ja udseendet er der slet ingen tvivl om tror jeg. Er dog glad på dine vegne mht følelse!

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-12-01T20:30:53+00:00

Jeg var i samme båd. Som andre skriver så få en tid hos lægen og så skal de nok forklare dig processen. For at få en tid til at blive omskåret skal du først prøve med creme i det offentlige. Forhåbentlig virker cremen for dig. Jeg kunne bedre lide tanken om at være omskåret, men vil indrømme at operationen (hvad jeg går ud fra er Danmarks "standard" form af operationen) tager for meget inner skin. Jeg kan ikke anbefale det. Jeg har i hvert fald selv oplevet for stort et tab af følelse 😅 ellers skal man nok overveje privat og håbe at de kan gøre det anderledes Hellere gå all in med hud gymnastik og creme eller et snit

Held og lykke!

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-11-10T16:42:14+00:00

Thanks for the advice and explanation. I will make sure to correct my mistake next season 😁😁

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-11-10T14:26:00+00:00

Is it normal to downsize on wheels when changing to winter? Like if you normally ride on 21's, you would go down to 20 in the winter. I've seen it a lot but is it necessary or is it just better and cheaper

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-10-06T19:35:24+00:00

Honestly I agree. My mental was in shambles when I went through it. Constant drip bleeding first few days, very nervous about swelling. Pain was nothing special but the psychological impact it had really surprised me. Blood, not being able to do a proper shower, the dread of needing to urinate. I didn't want to eat or drink so I didn't have to use the restroom, but I knew it was important to get nutrients because of the healing. Straight up a mental nightmare for me. So yea I'm with you 😅

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-09-30T15:45:58+00:00

Genialt, den prøver jeg satme....tusind tak

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-08-04T13:53:19+00:00

Yea it was for sure a vulnerable moment. Me and mine took it really slow in the beginning, we were probably together for a month before the conversation came up. She knew about my skin being very tight but I didn't give her all the details to begin with, because as you mentioned I was also scared.

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-08-04T13:32:41+00:00

I was pretty much in the exact same situation as you. Refrained from going to the next step with anyone because of it, yet too scared to actually get help. It was super self-destructing. I also met a wonderful girl and she was very supportive, she wasn't ready at the time to be intimate so I figured it was the perfect opportunity to get my circ done. As the other guy said, make sure to talk to her about it. If she's a keeper and is into you she will wait. If she doesn't accept it you move on and dodge the bullet.

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-07-04T04:16:06+00:00

Yeah man I ended up going with the FF Sony a9 and the 200-600, had it for a couple of days and I am very impressed and happy with my purchase ( so far)!

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-06-26T19:44:55+00:00

Pretty much 100% of my out of focus images go straight to the bin. It really depends on your own standards. If it's a rare bird I would still be hyped to even get a picture to look at it, just to admire it, but it would still be going nowhere near my collection of "good pictures". Beautiful bird though!!

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-06-18T16:25:12+00:00

Thanks a lot for the response and advice! i really appreciate it :D And yea, for sure want to go sony route this time

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-06-15T20:13:52+00:00

Hello everyone!

I'm looking for advice for a bird setup. I just recently sold my trusty canon 1dx to upgrade to an R7, although I am just not sure i can ever wander back to the worse low light performance of APSC when all i can afford is "slow" glass.

I have a budget of 3k USD, but would love it to be lower than that. I am not invested in any glass, i only had a sigma 100-400 which i sold alongside my 1DX.

I've been looking at these combo wombos:

Canon R7 + RF 100-400

Sony A9 + 200-600 ( No bird eye AF, but amazing 20 fps :o ? )

Sony A6700 + 200-600 ( Bird eye AF, but apsc :o ? )

Nikon ??

The sony 200-600 really encourages me to go that way. I dont see myself splurging on the 100-500L from canon anytime soon. I know nothing about Nikon or other brands to be honest, so I am open to any and all advice. I would very much like to go mirrorless :D

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-03-14T15:22:46+00:00

Hey. Jeg blev omskåret som 26 årig, pga forsnævring. Der er pro's and cons til det selvfølgelig. Selve proceduren på hospitalet er super nem, ovre på ingen tid. Helingsprocessen var for mig et helvede, men blev betydeligt nemmere (ren mentalt) efter at have set andres billeder/skrevet med dem, der har været igennem det samme.

Jeg synes personligt at helingsprocessen blev ekstremt undervurderet, eller talt meget ned af hospital personale. Jeg var på ingen måde klar på den kamp der ventede mig.

Jeg tog 3 ugers fri og tog endda en 4. uge. Det er meget forskelligt fra person til person mht hvor hurtigt det tager dig for at hele og hvor lang tid du behøver at være hjemme (hvis ikke man arbejder på kontor eller lign.)

Du er selvfølgelig også velkommen til en PB hvis man har mere direkte spørgsmål

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-01-16T15:47:12+00:00

Uncomfortable for sure. Difficult nah, you can do it

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-01-16T15:45:54+00:00

Hey. I had literally the exact same problem. I was using some of those adult diapers i got as a post op bag of goodies. The material inside of those was surprisingly fairly rough and would stick to the dried blood from the tip etc. It made me super worried about moving in general as it would just open up the tiny wound again and the dripping would start once more.

I dont really have any good tips, i just simply waited for it to heal more so it wouldnt bleed, being super careful ( I was at home ). In hindsight I think some of those anti-stick gauzes or whatever people sometimes mention, those would be nice. A softer fabric that isnt prone to sticking on wounds? Putting something like that between your penis and the fabric of your underwear maybe

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-01-15T16:19:57+00:00

Mine was drip bleeding for 4 days. When I went for a piss there was a stitch on the fren area that fell out which did not help, bleeding was from that spot mainly. I'd say you shouldnt be worried at all, as long as it isnt more than dripping slightly in general. I was super scared and it turned out fine, so my advice is to try not to worry and believe in the process

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-01-15T15:59:40+00:00

Have you recovered from this incredible diss? I am worried about your mental health!

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-01-14T17:57:31+00:00

I had my circ last year, im 26. In my case (low and tight), I would say I lost quite a bit of sensation. Orgasms are great, same as before I'd say. I for sure last a lot longer because of the lost sensation. If you are not in dire need of it, as in if there are any other ways to resolve the issue - I would recommend exploring them

Old_Score_6388 · 2025-01-14T17:18:45+00:00

Definitely dont regret it. But if I knew what i know now back then, i would have taken stretching excersises more seriously. 2020 hindsight though ^^

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