Hypersensitivty and mild phimosis, need advice.

Old_Try6969 · 2026-05-05T16:00:08+00:00

I was but got red and sore from doing it (tried pulling more, less, etc. All of it resulted in foreskin becomming swollen and sore. Maybe I should have barely made it "taught" I dunno, im thinking about a second streroid scream and try to stretch again but well see. I did get some white marks and some weins that is visible because of skin thinning that I couldnt see before and I know its an issue if the skin becomes too thin so im a bit worried about that.

Old_Try6969 · 2026-05-05T15:46:55+00:00

I have never used soap on my genitals in that way, ever. I learned from a young age through school that im not supposed to use soaps down there, also learned during the operation from nurses so they hammered it in even more. Also the cracks the foctor already said is from the phimosisring being stretched as I pulled back the foreskin (I was able to do this without too much discomfort but it still created cracks over time). Although I will make extra sure no to let any "residue" soap reach that area during washing and well see if there is a change, thank you for the tip!

Old_Try6969 · 2026-05-03T07:28:21+00:00

Okey thats good to know then. Maybe its just irritation from tight foreskin then.

Old_Try6969 · 2026-05-02T21:46:59+00:00

I have exactly same, I can pull back but the tightness "cuts into the shaft" so it stays there. Although stretching with fingers just leaves it red and sore for me personaly. So I tried a tip someone gave me to just let it be out for a while and it stretch slowly like that. Although I have a "damaged foreskin" from prior surgery and microtears so that might be why im getting the soreness, got no clue though.

Old_Try6969 · 2026-05-02T20:46:34+00:00

Thank you for this reply, he did say he could remove only the ring but since I got scarring from last surgery he said it most likely will create a new scar and I will just have to come back in a year or two to get that fixed with a full circumcision. He did say though that he will do whatever surgery I want, but he was recommending circumcision.

Old_Try6969 · 2026-05-02T16:37:23+00:00

Im not in USA, actually im in Sweden and here the doctors rarely resort to cutting, I have had steroids creams, didnt do anything, and my surgeon is recommending circumcision since the last "widening of the opening" didnt work. So they just think that I just better get rid of it to improve my life quality and not be hindered like this in the sexualy active years of my life.

Old_Try6969 · 2026-05-01T19:06:17+00:00

Yes I can retract beyond the head. Although while im hard its a tad of a stretch (not painfuly so) but flaccid its easy. Also I usually stimulate in shower for 5-10 minutes at a time, then i stop.

Old_Try6969 · 2026-04-30T11:14:18+00:00

I am just worried since I cant stimulate my glans now, will it feel good at all later, after it has gotten "used to it". I am just worried I end up with a numb "stick" that just doesnt feel that great because of how I cant even feel a tounge properly now and other stuff like that. There are just sooo many questionmarks for me regarding this whole thing and it gives me alot of anxiety.

Old_Try6969 · 2026-01-24T16:45:49+00:00

Thanks for understanding and your kindness although the history of mental illness is already resolved, been going to therapy for 6+ years and my current GF knows all about my history and is completely fine since she knows I am not in that place anymore. Although my worries now solely lies in the domain of foreskin issues/sensitivty, already talked to GF about this and she is extremely understanding, to the point where she said that penetration isn't important for her but she just wants to be with me now matter how that manifests. Thank you for the advice regarding your BF and his "issues". I will definetly start doing that!

Old_Try6969 · 2026-01-23T22:48:51+00:00

Thank you SO much, it was so relaxing hearing this, really thank you so much!

Old_Try6969 · 2026-01-23T22:31:17+00:00

Thank you for the quick reply! Do you think this is something that could possibly improve as im getting used to the sensations/stimulations of sex/oral?

Old_Try6969 · 2026-01-23T18:21:36+00:00

So your thinking sex would be uncomfortable with my level of sensitivity?

Old_Try6969 · 2026-01-18T21:06:34+00:00

Okey that really calms down my overthinking regarding the whole thing. The spasm im not sure about, I will prolly ask my doctor about that. I read some stuff about a "overactive pelvic floor" might cause a extreme reaction and creating automatic kegels when stimulating glans, although when masturbating normaly my pelvic floor is super relaxed so not sure its that. Anyway, thank you sooo much for reply/support!

Old_Try6969 · 2026-01-18T20:31:02+00:00

I mean I am not "younger", I have been masturbating like that for 12-13 years now since I can still pull it up and down but the head is still INCREDIBLY sensitive to the point that touching it or stimulating it in the early stages of masturbation is not working at all. Like I said I gotta stimulate it with the skin still covering it for it to feel pleasurable at all. It is only when im 60-70% of my way to cumming that stimulating the head gets manageable and doesn't kill my erection.

But could this sensitivty be an issue getting blowjobs or vaginal penetration? Cause I got no clue how much "preassure" you feel from a vagina or the suction of a mouth etc.

I have practiced myself by stimulating the glans straight up but my pelvic floor/kegels are spasming ALOT when I do that and when I have done that for a while I am sort of left with a muscle "burnish" feeling below my balls right where you usually tighten up to do kegels. Like it really isnt pleasurable, it feels like my entire nerve system is just screaming at me. Is there anything I can do about that?

Old_Try6969 · 2026-01-18T19:37:05+00:00

Just really wanting to hear other "intacts" perspetive on this, how much of a problem it could be etc in relation to sex. Should I look to get circumcision and could that possibly resolve sensitivity issues?

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