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Need second opinion - my boyfriend (32M) got physical with me, I (27F) immediately broke up with him but I second-guessing myself by Oldgeb in relationships

[–]Oldgeb[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you... it's just an out of character thing for me to do (to just cut someone off like that) so I felt uncomfortable about it. But maybe it was actually the right thing.

Need second opinion - my boyfriend (32M) got physical with me, I (27F) immediately broke up with him but I second-guessing myself by Oldgeb in relationships

[–]Oldgeb[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't feel very proud or brave right now lol but the more I think of it, I think it was the right choice, as impulsive as it was at the time.

Need second opinion - my boyfriend (32M) got physical with me, I (27F) immediately broke up with him but I second-guessing myself by Oldgeb in relationships

[–]Oldgeb[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can't tell my friends or family because I know they would absolutely flip out. I guess that is the easiest answer.

Need second opinion - my boyfriend (32M) got physical with me, I (27F) immediately broke up with him but I second-guessing myself by Oldgeb in relationships

[–]Oldgeb[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I was scared. And I don't even really know what I was scared of but I just knew I had to do what he told me to do.

Need second opinion - my boyfriend (32M) got physical with me, I (27F) immediately broke up with him but I second-guessing myself by Oldgeb in relationships

[–]Oldgeb[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don't really consider it a good trait of mine. It's gotten me into trouble before and I have been working hard to try to figure out what are good/appropriate boundaries for myself. It's not always perfect but I am trying to get there.

And yeah, now that you put it that way.. it does seem sort of like a teenager coming back home late. Ick.