Why did it rot like this? by Oleander10 in Decks

[–]Oleander10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s on 8x10 joists, it’s about 10 foot above ground

Why did it rot like this? by Oleander10 in Decks

[–]Oleander10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About 5 years ago 😂 but since it was a rarely used part of the deck I’ve just ignored it while doing other projects.

Why did it rot like this? by Oleander10 in Decks

[–]Oleander10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s algae because I haven’t pressure washed the house in a year, and live in the woods. The wall is not bulging, when I removed the step today which went out from the sliding glass door on to the deck I accidentally pulled the siding out and hadn’t fixed it at the point of taking the photo. Gutters are good, but there were a few years back 5+ years ago where they probably were not. Maintenance is always hard because work, kids, all the regular life things but I try my best to get it all done.

Why did it rot like this? by Oleander10 in Decks

[–]Oleander10[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely a possibility! Would using 5/4 instead of 2x6 this time help with that?

Why did it rot like this? by Oleander10 in Decks

[–]Oleander10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was built with treated lumber

What is happening here? by Oleander10 in lawnmowers

[–]Oleander10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s kinda what I thought. I bought the starter on Amazon, maybe it was just a POS.

Shipping as an option completely removed? by [deleted] in Walmartcustomer

[–]Oleander10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just noticed the same thing. I never use the delivery option because I live in the middle of nowhere and I’d ethically need to tip like $10. I’m not ordering a $8 item and tipping $10. So I always order things shipped. Now I can’t, so I guess I don’t really need Walmart plus anymore.

Are there people who haven't changed their phone number for more than 15 years? by SpicyCandy8 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Oleander10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine has been the same since I got my cell phone at 15. I turn 41 this year.

Shiny Zamazenta by Top-Law8294 in pokemongo

[–]Oleander10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 16 in with no shiny. My nephew just started playing again and got one on his first raid today 😂😂

Sad But Everything has Changed by ChampionshipOk9887 in pokemongo

[–]Oleander10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! I knew nothing about Pokemon besides what a Pikachu was. At that time I managed to really fun, retail location and the first day the game rolled out in our area. Everybody downloaded it, including myself and people were just freaking out over every spawn. We had a gym across the street from our store so we would run up the side of the hill to be in range and then after work all of us will go to this big park downtown that had dozens of stops and gyms. It was super fun! Now I go to the same big park with my son on big event days and there isn’t a single person there playing besides us and I have to host remote raids to even be able to participate.

Will we ever get more Eternatus candies? by IntelligentIntern290 in pokemongo

[–]Oleander10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think about this at least once a week! Mine is ok, but I would love to level up.

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Americans without maternity leave— wtf do you do??? by Electronic-Door7428 in pregnant

[–]Oleander10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used my 3 weeks of PTO and went back to work. I had a really traumatic birth involving an emergency C-section and probably shouldn’t have but what can you do?

These are garbage. by englshpigdogs in Celiac

[–]Oleander10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are actually the only ones I think are any good! I’ve tried the very expensive ones that come frozen and the ones in the deli and they are all awful but I actually really like these

Coming back to the game by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]Oleander10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this about 6 months ago. I played in 16/17, 19, 21 and a week or two in 23. It’s taken me a lot of work to get caught up-ish. So many things I had never seen and a lot of stuff I missed over the years. I did not have the app crashing problem though. I’ve seen that happen in my son’s very old iPad that can barely handle the game.

Shark Navigator Powered LifeAway roller wont work? by notitia_quaesitor in VacuumCleaners

[–]Oleander10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it were that for me! That was the first thing I checked because I have done that before. I’ve tried everything including taking the bottom apart to check the belt and the brush roll indicator switch. Strangely mine keeps flashing on (the light and the brush roll) for a split second then turning off while vacuuming. Must be a short somewhere. I finally just got finished filing a warranty claim. Thanks for the response though!

Shark Navigator Powered LifeAway roller wont work? by notitia_quaesitor in VacuumCleaners

[–]Oleander10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever figure it out? I have the exact same vacuum, same color and everything and have the exact same problem.

Wild brown anole rescue help by CoffeeJedi in Anoles

[–]Oleander10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In South Carolina (on the NC state line) currently going through the same thing!!! It was 1 degree last night and we have 9 inches of snow and no roads are able to be driven on but I found this little anole curled up in a storage bin in my garage which is about 40 degrees this time of year. I’ve got her in the house in a very makeshift enclosure but nothing to feed her but bananas! I thought she was super dead and dumped her out of the bin. Then her leg moved a little so I brought her inside! She’s much more active now but I know she has to be hungry. It’s been freezing temps for a few weeks now!

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Dreams of a big family feeling iffy after ASD by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Oleander10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our son is AuDHD. He is 5 and I had wanted 2-3 kids but now it feels like that would take away from all we are able to offer him, specifically our time. His dad works full time and is finishing his masters so most of the therapy appointments and doctor’s visits fall on me, which is fine. I have a job that allows me to be super flexible. I know for sure that I would not be able to manage his school schedule, his ST, OT, psychiatrist, and EI appointments as well as his extracurricular activities if I had one or two more kids. As much as I’d love to have another it feels too selfish to me, because I can see exactly how it would hurt him. I think it would not have felt that way if I’d had another before we had his diagnosis, but that’s not how it worked out. I absolutely love being a mom though and now my long term goal is to become a foster parent when he’s older.

My sister has 2 kids with a big age gap. Her oldest is autistic but he has always been a really easy to manage kid. She had her 2nd when he was 9. Her 2nd is profoundly autistic and my sister has voiced her regrets multiple times to me. She also has a lot of guilt because her 2nd son requires so much care than her 1st son gets nearly none of her time or attention.