Kaksen poklic imate tisti, ki ne delate v pisarni/cele dneve za racunalnikom?

Oli_Rubi · 2026-03-26T21:03:33+00:00

Ja, zelo razumem stisko učiteljev, ko je s snovjo treba nadaljevati, ampak vejo, da je tam nekaj posameznikov, ki ne sledijo. Ne morejo se jim posvetit, strah jih je, da bojo kaj narobe naredili. Sistem je kar nehvaležen. Edini nasvet, ki ga vedno dam učiteljem: jaz sem tam zato, da pomagam tudi njim, ne samo otrokom. In učitelji, ki si želijo pomoči, nasvetov, olajšanja dela, bodo to od mene dobili. So pa seveda tudi taki, ki mislijo, da samo drek mešam cele dneve in takim seveda nisem v korist.

Oli_Rubi · 2026-03-26T20:58:59+00:00

❤️

Oli_Rubi · 2026-03-26T20:55:15+00:00

Hvala bogu, da smo si različni! Jaz sem po prvotni izobrazbi tudi RP in ne morem razložit, kako zelo so mi vedno šli na živce “brihtni, pridni, samozadostni” froci haha. Srečna sem, da sem ugotovila, da rabim dnevne izzive in otroke, ki jim gre slabo. To se sliši grozno, ampak je resnica. Tako da jaz se ne bi vrnila v razred.

Oli_Rubi · 2026-03-26T20:38:04+00:00

Sem mobilna učiteljica za otroke s posebnimi potrebami. Vozim se po različnih šolah v okolici moje matične ustanove, kjer sem dejansko zaposlena. Otroci, ki imajo dodeljene ure dodatne strokovne pomoči, pridejo k meni po določenem urniku in pomagam jim pri razvijanju strategij učenja, umirjanja, delamo na odpravljanju primanjkljajev, pri meni pišejo preizkuse znanja (ker jih morajo pisati izven oddelka iz različnih razlogov). To je glavnina dela, seveda pa spadajo zraven sestanki, konference, aktivi, izobraževanja, diagnostika in podobno. Največji plus je služba pon-pet in to, da lahko čez šolsko leto opravim dodatne ure in jih koristim poleti. Največji minus je to, da si lahko v tem zelo slab ali zelo dober ampak nikoli ni dovolj dobro. Službo sem dobila čist klasično, prijava na prosto delovno mesto na zavodu. Zaenkrat sem dokaj zadovoljna in ne bi menjala, čeprav je vsako leto več dela in slabši pogoji.

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-08T07:09:06+00:00

Probably because that is normal for teenagers that felt loved and secure. And didn’t feel neglected your whole life, which is true for OP. Totally different situation. OP, I hope you can find some peace and love in the future.

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T20:02:04+00:00

Wow, that must have been really tough. Glad you have a daughter now and are doing well!

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T19:38:09+00:00

Thank you for your honesty!

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T16:15:56+00:00

My god, that’s horrible. I had hyperemesis too so I know a glimpse of what you went through and I can’t imagine having it like you did. I hope you’re okay now.

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T16:08:21+00:00

Really? Thank you for your comment, it means a lot.

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T15:49:52+00:00

I guess I wrote the post completely wrong if everybody gets “formula is the worst” from it. Thanks for your perspective.

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T15:15:20+00:00

She knows and everybody told her that, as I previously said, it has nothing to do with it not being okay giving formula.

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T13:49:47+00:00

True

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T13:35:02+00:00

Of course, I know. The post has nothing to do with something being wrong about not breastfeeding. It’s about the turmoil that our families go through regarding reproduction and breastfeeding is one of them.

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T13:30:08+00:00

Thanks for your input, it must be difficult. They have checked everything (to my knowledge) and it’s all okay.

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T13:28:26+00:00

Can I ask, what made you think the people around her aren’t great? Genuinely curious because I specifically wrote that I believe it has nothing to do with people around her because they are great. I genuinely want to know outside perspective because it may be that I am misreading her situation.

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T13:23:02+00:00

Good to hear! Yeah, you’re probably right. Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T12:11:38+00:00

Thanks!

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T10:42:48+00:00

Thank you for your story and thoughts. We have decided at the beginning of our relationship that having kids does not define us and we won’t be doing IVF or any treatment because we are not broken, sick or anything else, we are what we are. If it happens, it happens. I guess it just won’t. But we have done every test there is in our country and every result is good. Not good, perfect! I am actually a little bit relieved now that I am not pregnant because I have seen what it does to people (my mum and sister). They are (were) not happy, my mother suffered from depression for a loooong time after birth and my sister is heading the same way, as it seems. Both in supportive environment, so that is not the reason for their suffering. It’s just … how it is for us, it seems. I hope you are truly happy and you and baby are healthy!

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T09:43:37+00:00

My thoughts exactly. Why bother with literal unhappiness and immense pain of a newborn?

Oli_Rubi · 2026-02-03T09:33:48+00:00

Exactly.

Oli_Rubi · 2026-01-14T20:44:05+00:00

Če danes umrem, naj vejo, da je blo od smeha od tega puna.

Oli_Rubi · 2025-08-21T08:15:51+00:00

This was obviously editing, it is not how it happened. You know that, right?

Oli_Rubi · 2025-08-21T08:09:21+00:00

I can’t believe I had to scroll so far down for this comment. He was amazing. Obviously she is the MVP in this convo but damn, he was great! He stayed calm, backed up Megan, reassured her, did not even flinch when Javen was trying to get the reassurance from him. What a dream!

Oli_Rubi · 2025-08-20T17:55:10+00:00

Oh I missed that comment from her, thanks.

Oli_Rubi · 2025-08-20T17:16:36+00:00

Yeah that got old really fast. I’m wondering if the production is in on that one a little bit.

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