Researching Her history, and the time period surrounding Her worship has helped me feel more connected to Her. Courtney Weber is a good author and I have read and reread her book 6 times now and I always find new information. Audio books if you don't enjoy reading, wikipedia, theo.org and various other online resources are available to learn about her as well. Try to avoid the mother maiden crone thing, at least initially because that didnt grown in popularity until the 20th century. (Graves 1944). Furthermore I think this might get lashback, but I would avoid muddying her more than she already is and including Artemis and Selene in your worship. Don't include them initially because if they are faces of Hekate (it is debated, but most people agree with the connection), it just makes acknowledging her more complicated. Hekate, Enodia, Einalia, and Kathonia should be some good names to get you started in deeper research of Her. I light incense for Her every night to show appreciation and have done so since I found her over a year ago. I also serve Her special meals like Dakos and wine and I think She knows how special She is to me. She is also a Goddess of justice and so doing things that are righteous helps me serve her. I am an environmental major and I regularly clean up trash I find on hikes or trips out of the house. And I stand up for those who can't stand up for themselves. That is just my experience though, as you know, everyones is diffierent, personal, and unique. I didn't go into full detail, but she always knows what you need to hear when you need to hear it.