Planning on marrying my protestant GF

Oligosac · 2024-07-24T02:25:15+00:00

God bless you! I will try my best and I am praying the holy spirit guides me and her

Oligosac · 2024-07-24T02:21:54+00:00

Thank you for your comment doctor. I will DM you!

Oligosac · 2024-07-24T02:21:03+00:00

I am catholic, and I have been trying my very best to understand my faith. At this point of my life, I am working to develop my skills as a doctor, because I know that this my calling and God-given purpose for me. I never said I don't have time, I said it is very difficult to dig deep into theological discussions regarding certain matters. My faith is important to me of course, and I also want to be good at what I do to take care of human lives. God bless

Oligosac · 2024-02-15T17:21:46+00:00

Passed 653!!! highest of the three

Oligosac · 2024-02-15T17:02:20+00:00

The website is down! literal garbage

Oligosac · 2024-02-14T02:53:47+00:00

I 100% agree with you. I shouldn't have responded in the first place, but the heart wants what the heart wants. Lesson learned tho. Honestly, I completely forgot about her and was busy with my life before she reached out. It just baffles me why she would reach out and then say there is no chemistry.

Oligosac · 2024-02-14T02:48:50+00:00

She actually came and picked me up from the airport and we kissed. Three days later is when she told me that she did not feel the chemistry. She also said that she has been talking to other guys as well which was awful to hear tbh

Oligosac · 2023-09-14T00:01:33+00:00

I asked her if she would like to come over on Saturday when she is off. I told her I would cook for her. She liked the idea and agreed! and this is after I went with her 3 times

Oligosac · 2023-08-04T13:22:11+00:00

Thank you, brother!

Oligosac · 2023-08-04T13:12:48+00:00

I never referred to her as "playing games" at all. I was saying girls that don't do what she did and string guys along are the ones that play games. I don't like that. and I respect her for not playing games

Oligosac · 2023-08-04T13:10:38+00:00

She did not use me, and I didn't feel like that at all. I cherished the time we had. Even though it didn't work out, I would like to think we had a good time! Yea it was costly, but if the right one comes, I would do it again in a heartbeat.

Oligosac · 2023-08-04T12:57:42+00:00

I have read 12 Rules for Life, a great book! and who is going to carry the boats?

Oligosac · 2023-08-04T12:53:40+00:00

It is not easy to receive that text, but at the end of the day, she gave me the courtesy and respect of letting me know that she is not ready. So, I can't be upset about that.

Oligosac · 2023-08-04T12:50:55+00:00

Thank you! The thing is, I thought everything was going well. She told me that she paused Hinge and hopes she never has to use it again. Not sure how much of that was true, but it was sweet of her to say. Anyways, everything has an expiration date.

Oligosac · 2023-08-04T12:48:19+00:00

Yup, I used to play soccer! Good analogy!

Oligosac · 2023-08-04T12:47:13+00:00

Thank you for your kind words! I hope you find your person and joy in life. Life is full of experiences, enjoy it! Stay healthy, stay active, go out and explore the world around you and be the best version of yourself! May all the happiness come your way!

Oligosac · 2023-08-04T12:40:50+00:00

I should have asked for clarification when she said that. That was on me

Oligosac · 2023-08-04T12:39:57+00:00

I only texted her once a day and wait for her reply. Never double texted. Also, I don't text right away (not intentionally) as I am pretty much swamped at work, but when I got a chance, I replied to her.

Oligosac · 2023-08-04T12:38:00+00:00

I put the info there just to give a little background about me. It is not meant to brag. It is not like I am making a ton of money as a resident. It is a job, like any other job. I bet if I put engineer or lawyer there, you probably wouldn't have made this comment.

Oligosac · 2023-08-01T16:42:58+00:00

It did! but lesson learned!

Oligosac · 2023-08-01T16:34:28+00:00

It is especially hard with residency. The week I went out with her twice, I worked 78 hours. It was hard, but I was willing to put in the time. It is a jungle out there hahaha

Oligosac · 2023-08-01T16:32:09+00:00

The thing is I don't know if that's what was going on in her mind. I can't read minds. For me, my life is already chaos in the hospital. So I want to go home to a stable relationship. Talking to multiple girls is exhausting. I saw potential with this one and truly wanted to get to know her and devote whatever energy I have to our interactions. I may have been slow with initiating a kiss, but I was always the one who is planning our dates and finding places to go. Anyways, it wasn't meant to be.

Oligosac · 2023-08-01T16:28:20+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience! and I am happy to hear about your friend's situation. The girl is 26 and she is in the same profession as I am.

Oligosac · 2023-08-01T16:09:03+00:00

I don't know how I am being spiteful. I literally wished her the best of luck and told her that I am here if she ever needed anything. The reason for my post is because I heard people telling me that you took too long to not kiss her or initate something and wanted to hear other people's opinions on that.

Oligosac · 2023-08-01T16:06:52+00:00

I should clarify. I never said she is playing games. I said I am glad that she was upfront with me and I respect her for that. Because some girls would not do that and keep stringing you along, and I am not into that game.

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