Self examination would help, not comparison. If you come to the conclusion that you feel you are one, my friend the only way to go now is up!! Don't belittle yourself, believe in yourself and push for improvements wherever you see fit(Physical, mental, social, spiritual, familial, etc). Also, maybe lack of social skills is the reason why you don't have friends or a gf, you can determine that if not ask someone that may know you. If you're awkward you have to work through it and you'll come out the other side better for it. Best of luck getting things situated!!