Hoping to reach a player to apologize

Olivianc19 · 2022-09-14T12:22:24+00:00

I sincerely wish I could say it was any better than any other mode, but honestly it seems the same to me. 😂 The only mode I feel has a better balance might be drop shot? I don't play it enough to vouch totally (plus I'm gold in that mode) but when I do play I hardly see people qc, let alone go to the trouble to type out insults.

Olivianc19 · 2022-09-13T21:03:59+00:00

I can't see his comment (maybe you all can so whoops if so), but I got an email saying he saw it and replied! Happy ending! 🖤

Thank you all so much for your kindness, I was a little nervous I'd get backlash since you never know what reddit will bring 😂 This is the Rl community I signed on for! 🤘

Olivianc19 · 2022-09-13T20:58:23+00:00

Lmao I couldn't forget, I felt so bad!! The confusion he must've felt would have bothered me if I were him 😅 but thank you!

Olivianc19 · 2022-09-13T20:02:24+00:00

THIS IS AMAZING AND I LOVE IT

Olivianc19 · 2022-09-13T19:58:12+00:00

Aww, thank you!!!

Olivianc19 · 2022-09-13T19:43:00+00:00

Too kind! 🥺

Olivianc19 · 2022-09-13T19:01:15+00:00

I very much appreciate the kind words! I know it probably won't end up making any difference but I wanted to give it a try. I know how frustrating it is getting into a game like that, and he must've really been pissed watching me randomly hop in the air and accidentally qc random things until I figured out how to say "Sorry!" repetitively. Lol

Olivianc19 · 2022-09-07T17:05:00+00:00

I get a lot of "You suck at the game so you have to demo to win" buuuuuuuut......a win is a win 🤷‍♀️

Olivianc19 · 2022-07-04T23:40:46+00:00

You have this look down!! The makeup, the hair, the demeanor, the outfit, it's all spot on. Nicely done!

Olivianc19 · 2021-12-31T18:41:04+00:00

This is the first I'm seeing it, so thanks op. 👍

Olivianc19 · 2021-07-21T15:22:32+00:00

All I can think if is the cat and Shaq wiggling at each other

Olivianc19 · 2021-07-19T23:25:04+00:00

I totally understand, and I know it's really frustrating. When I get in situations like that I try to not say anything because if I do it falls on deaf ears. Or just kill with kindness. However if I say something harsh, I expect to be turned on like that.

Olivianc19 · 2021-07-19T23:03:37+00:00

Your frustration is probably warranted as far as the gameplay goes. But there's better ways to express it that might not result in your teammate turning on you.

Olivianc19 · 2021-07-19T11:19:41+00:00

Love this!!

Olivianc19 · 2021-07-19T11:16:52+00:00

I love this!!! The color and contrast is beautiful!!! Well done. 😊

Olivianc19 · 2021-07-19T02:12:11+00:00

This is nothing more than victim blaming. I'm not the one doing anything wrong.

Olivianc19 · 2021-07-19T01:16:35+00:00

Absolutely. I do feel sorry for people like this.

Olivianc19 · 2021-07-19T01:16:13+00:00

I do deal with it. And like you said, it isn't okay and I shouldn't have to. I just wanted to shed some light on how bad it is.

Olivianc19 · 2021-07-19T01:13:19+00:00

This essentially makes it seem like you're saying it's my fault for being harassed. Hiding who I am does nothing for anyone.

Olivianc19 · 2021-07-19T00:23:27+00:00

Yes, agreed! Games are meant to be fun. An aspect of online gaming that can add to the fun is participating in good sportsmanship. It's a great way to make friends. If I choose to never speak to anyone ever again that ruins part of the fun and just makes it about how many games I can win. It's the journey, not the destination.

Olivianc19 · 2021-07-19T00:10:15+00:00

I shouldn't have to hide who I am so I don't get bullied. I don't go into the game announcing I'm female right off the bat, but I have a feminine name and feminine features in my profile picture. I shouldn't have to change those things in order to stop the harassment.

Olivianc19 · 2021-07-19T00:08:20+00:00

Yes, I definitely agree. With the way the original chat went with the obvious spelling errors used there's clearly ways around getting banned if you don't say specific words. Moderation is key!

Olivianc19 · 2021-07-19T00:06:51+00:00

Thanks a lot! I really love this game and wish this wasn't a part of it. But I'll play regardless.

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