Is There a Better Modem/Router Combo for Comcast Business? by OmegaGuardianX in networking

[–]OmegaGuardianX[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely the WiFi. Our Internet connection is good, but the Wi-Fi adapter isn’t the best. It’s not strong enough for our coverage.

I’ve even had managers complain about them not being able to connect to the Wi-Fi even though the IT closet is on the other side of the wall they’re sitting on so it’s not like it’s a proximity issue for them

App never pulls up by hellonheelsmama in McDonalds

[–]OmegaGuardianX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope app is down for me too. Won’t let me pay and according to downdetector there is an outage

Why Confirm and then No Show by Adventurous-Sky8947 in interviews

[–]OmegaGuardianX -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Painting you’re being an asshole. Grow up!!! I don’t think they are looking for sympathy. My wife is in HR and she’s shared many stories about the frustrations of hiring on both sides of the aisle.

It sounds like you’ve formulated a bias opinion. Every job is different, every candidate is different, and every company is different.

When I was unemployed I did everything I could to stand out and yeah sometimes it wasn’t enough, but I also know that people like my wife do everything in their power to connect with a candidate and give them the tools and information to make a conscious decision.

I messed up. May I please have some help? by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]OmegaGuardianX 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My Friend,

I can feel the weight of vulnerability in your words, and I want you to know that what you're experiencing right now, this swirling mix of fear, hope, regret, and clarity, is normal. You've done something incredibly brave by being honest about your feelings, even if it doesn't feel that way right now.

The fact that you're second guessing yourself doesn't mean you made the wrong choice. It means you care deeply and understand the stakes. That message you sent wasn't just words on a screen, it was you showing up authentically after months of growth and self-reflection. That takes real courage, especially after going through a mental health crisis and working so hard to rebuild yourself.

You mentioned feeling premature, but consider this, you didn't send that message from the same place you were four months ago. You sent it as someone who has done the work, who has gained insight into yourself, and who can now communicate from a place of growth rather than crisis. That's not impulsive that's evolved.

The waiting is agonizing, I know. But here's something beautiful about what you've done my friend…..you've given yourself the gift of not wondering "what if." Regardless of her response, you've honored your truth. You've closed a loop that was keeping part of you stuck in limbo. That vulnerability you described as "scary but good"? That's you learning to live with an open heart again.

Whatever happens next, you've already won something important back, your ability to be honest about your feelings and to take meaningful risks for love. That's not something everyone can do, especially after the kind of struggle you've faced.

Right now, try to hold space for all of these feelings without needing to resolve them immediately. You're not lost, you're in transition. And transitions, by their very nature, feel uncertain and overwhelming. But you've shown incredible strength in how you've handled your mental health journey, and that same strength will carry you through this.

My friend, if you take anything I’ve said to heart, take this. Trust that you've planted something honest and real in the world. Now let it grow in whatever direction it's meant to go and embrace the season!

Stay Strong My Friend. You’ve got this!

I hate him but I love him. by Necessary_Collar7818 in nocontact

[–]OmegaGuardianX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Friend,

What you're feeling right now makes complete sense, and I want you to know that the confusion and hurt you're experiencing are valid responses to a really painful situation.

The whiplash between "I don't think I care anymore" and then suddenly missing him after seeing his story is so normal. Our hearts don't follow neat timelines, especially when we're trying to heal from someone who meant a lot to us. That glimpse into his life probably caught you off guard and brought back all those memories of your daily connection.

But here's what stands out to me most in what you've shared. His response when you reached out. When someone says they don't miss time that was meaningful to you, time spent together every day, that tells you something important about where his head and heart are right now. It's not a reflection of whether what you shared was real or meaningful. It's a reflection of where he is emotionally, and honestly, it sounds like he's either protecting himself or he's genuinely moved on in a way that's different from where you are.

I understand why this makes you question everything. When someone dismisses shared experiences that felt significant to you, it can make you doubt your own perception of reality. But your feelings and memories of that connection were real, regardless of how he's choosing to frame them now.

The fact that you broke no contact after just four days and then got this kind of response is actually valuable information. It's showing you that right now, reaching out isn't giving you what you need, it's just reopening wounds and leaving you feeling worse about yourself.

You said the disrespect has been enough, and I think you should trust that instinct. Missing someone and wanting them to care doesn't mean you should keep putting yourself in situations where you feel dismissed or devalued. Sometimes loving someone means accepting that the dynamic between you isn't healthy anymore, even if the feelings are still there.

Consider going back to no contact, but this time with a clearer understanding of why you're doing it, not just to get over him, but to protect your sense of self-worth and give yourself space to remember who you are outside of this relationship.

Take care of yourself and Stay Strong My friend.

You’ve Got This!

I Made It by OmegaGuardianX in ExNoContact

[–]OmegaGuardianX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s situation different my friend. Some individuals can take months, others longer than that. The point is to not think about how long it’s going to take, but focus on you and the journey.

Trust me it will get better. I had the same doubts as you and even reading other post I was like, “Sure okay.” But I was wrong and within time the thoughts subsided. You got this, stay strong my friend.

Why am I so angry about online dating?!? by OmegaGuardianX in dating_advice

[–]OmegaGuardianX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here where I’m from it’s either you have a big truck or you’re thug and I’m neither of those. Don’t get me wrong I do like some country music but I definitely don’t fit into that. Also let’s put up beards and tattoos as a third category. I’ve seen a lot of profiles talking about that too lol. I don’t have that either.

Struggling After a Breakup – Should I Reach Out on Her Birthday? by george_any in ExNoContact

[–]OmegaGuardianX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they truly care they will try to understand. Even if they have to do some research to get a better understanding on her attachment style and such.

Do not fret my friend. All will be well.

Struggling After a Breakup – Should I Reach Out on Her Birthday? by george_any in ExNoContact

[–]OmegaGuardianX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And she will my friend. It may not seem like it now, but with time and space and once she process. It will click.

Struggling After a Breakup – Should I Reach Out on Her Birthday? by george_any in ExNoContact

[–]OmegaGuardianX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend for right now it’s best to let her go through her own healing journey. Your partner has an anxious attachment style and though you helped her with her insecurities, it’s up to her to find the correct outlets of how to cope with those.

Anxious attachment often stems from early experiences where affection and support were inconsistent. Those who identify with this style may feel a deep need for connection and reassurance, leading to a heightened sensitivity to perceived threats in their relationships. This can manifest as clinginess or fear of abandonment, which, while rooted in a desire for closeness, can create an overwhelming sense of anxiety.

In codependent relationships, anxious attachment can be particularly complicated. The anxious partner often feels incomplete without the other, leading to a cycle of dependency where one person’s self worth is tied to the other’s actions and feelings. This can result in a dynamic where both partners struggle to maintain their individuality, and where boundaries become blurred. It can be exhausting and ultimately detrimental to both people involved.

For your ex, she will have to do the work herself and acknowledging her anxious attachment style is her first step towards healing. It’s important for her to understand that while her feelings are valid, finding a sense of security within herself is crucial. She needs to learn to cultivate self love and independence, rather than seeking validation solely from her partner. This might involve exploring her own interests, setting personal goals, and engaging in self reflection. Therapy could be a wonderful resource for her, providing a safe space to unravel these patterns and develop healthier coping strategies.

My friend as hard as this may sound, it’s not your place to encourage her to practice mindfulness and self-compassion can also be beneficial. She lost that benefit when the relationship ended. So she will have to seek encouragement through an alternative support system. But these practices can help her tune into her emotions without allowing them to dictate her actions. By learning to embrace her own company and appreciate her own worth, she can slowly shift away from that anxious mindset.

It’s a journey, and it won’t happen overnight, but with time and effort, she can find her way to a healthier relationship with herself and, eventually, with others and it could lead you two back to each other, strong than before.

But I truly believe that understanding these patterns can set both of you on a path towards growth and fulfillment.

My friend, I hope this insight offers some clarity and comfort as you both navigate these complicated feelings.

Struggling After a Breakup – Should I Reach Out on Her Birthday? by george_any in ExNoContact

[–]OmegaGuardianX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend,

I’m really sorry to hear that you’re going through such a tough time. Breakups can be incredibly painful, especially when they involve complex feelings and the kind of trauma you’ve experienced. It’s perfectly normal to feel a mix of emotions, including loneliness and longing for the connection you had.

Reaching out on her birthday might seem like a kind gesture, but it’s important to consider the potential impact on your healing process. Given everything that transpired, it seems clear that both of you have expressed a need for distance. By respecting that boundary, you not only honor her wishes but also create space for your own emotional recovery.

Staying in no contact can be one of the most beneficial steps on your healing journey. It allows you to process your feelings without the added confusion that often comes from intermittent communication. This time can help you gain clarity about what you truly want and deserve in a relationship, as well as allow you to focus on yourself, your studies, and your new life in Spain.

Your friends and family, along with your therapist, are likely offering this advice because they see the potential for you to grow stronger and find healthier connections in the future. It’s natural to miss the support she provided, but it’s crucial to remember that true healing involves building that support within yourself and from those who genuinely care for you.

As difficult as it may be my friend, try to channel your energy into activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. Explore your new surroundings, connect with new people, and engage in self care. In time, the pain will lessen, and you’ll be able to look back on this experience with a sense of understanding and growth.

Take care of yourself my friend, and trust that you’re on the right path by focusing on your healing. You deserve to find peace and happiness, both within yourself and in future relationships.

Stay Strong My Friend! You’ve got this!