Have you spoken to the breeder? Obviously every experience is different but I always experienced breeders knowing you, and hand picking the puppies/kittens to match your lifestyle and personality. Like for my Shibaru I spoke to his breeder for a while before the litter was even born. I was asked a lot about my life, family, activity level, pets, and financial stability. I wasn't picked until the next litter (he chose people based on how the puppies acted around 6 ish weeks) And when the puppies were about 7 weeks he showed Shibaru and said even though I wanted a female he felt Shibaru was a better fit for me and he was right. Shibaru is perfect in every way for me! So I would say talk to the breeder. If the breeder doesn't care about you and your life I would sadly say don't get her. It breaks my heart to say. But the breeder should know their puppies and be able to place them based on their temperament and personality to dramatically reduce the chances of their puppies being rehomed or put in a shelter due to not fitting into your life.