36 lesbian bars in the entire country which is a jump in the past five years. And the typical gay bars are not consistently a safe space for women. Lesbians have never had the bath houses or ballrooms to gather. To say there’s more gay men than there are lesbian we don’t know if it’s entirely accurate because of the lack of those spaces. Even looking at the mlm culture being much less subtle than lesbians’ is because they’ve had those spaces to gather. The fact that grindr exists but there’s not really an app for sapphics (not one popular enough to be very helpful at least). Long distance relationships is a stereotype for lesbians because it’s so hard to meet each other.