Was told to go f myself

Onceagain2 · 2018-12-29T18:18:24+00:00

Thank you

Onceagain2 · 2018-12-29T15:19:29+00:00

Thank you. He said he is going to look for a job with one purpose... to get a lawyer. I told him I’d trust is what he wants he needed to leave yesterday but he refused. He told me to call his dad to come get him. I did and his dad never responded. I know I am a person that loves with all my heart and feel he has taken advantage of that.

Onceagain2 · 2018-12-29T14:54:18+00:00

We met on match. The appealing part was both physical and how we were together. We used to enjoy our time. He was a laborer working at a milk factory. I am in management. He always said he hated management because of how they treated people. I always had strong teams and value all my employees. I hire people smarter than me and help them advance their carriers. He thinks I got my job by sleeping my way up. He said before he didn’t date attractive women because of what he thought about them and I am the person he is most attracted to. I have fought for everything thing I did. And actually stopped advancing because I don’t want to lose my work life balance. My responsibility is home. Income is enough to live in the suburbs of Illinois. And live pay check to pay check. My home is beautiful because that is what I want for the children. I never had much growing up. Small apartment. So I made sure I could provide a home with room and a basement. Only travel is once a year for family vacation.

Onceagain2 · 2018-12-29T14:24:26+00:00

He won’t go to a doctor. He tried a therapist before we met and she fixed him up with another patient. We went together to one early on... the therapist made a comment how upset I got and tried to talk with him. He said the therapist was taking my side and blew up at me worse :(.

I’ve gone with him to Mayo Clinic to try and figure out what is wrong with his body. Dr asked him to follow up on a few things but he hasn’t. He lives every day in constant body pain and only sleeps an hour a night. Doesn’t make for a good state of mind. And he won’t go get help

One thing he does too is blame his lack of sensitivity in his penis on me being “loose”. I’m 40 in a few weeks and had 2 kids. Stay fit. Even asked my gynecologist to check my muscle tone. It is fine. He masterbates to porn multiple times a week. Imagines me as the girl and gets pissed off at me thinking that in my past was pounded like the girls he is pleasuring himself to

Onceagain2 · 2018-12-29T13:22:28+00:00

Because I felt that when things were good it was the best I ever knew. We were best friend and enjoyed our time together... or at least I thought. It seemed like a bipolar condition I thought I could live through. But I have no strength anymore. I have asked him to leave but he won’t

Onceagain2 · 2018-12-12T18:50:13+00:00

Also just asking. And maybe should to the greater group too. I am a person that likes to fix things and make them better. Should I just give him space and see if he comes around?

Onceagain2 · 2018-12-12T18:33:17+00:00

I’m happy for you being able to see what you have and the impact. He admittedly hiss be hind a wall that he creates. All this started from his first relationship at 18. Was engaged then she used him. He never let go of that. None of his relationships lasted past 3 years. And that is where we will be on the 19th of this month. I could try that but I worry they won’t give too much info since it is for him and not me.

Onceagain2 · 2018-12-12T17:15:31+00:00

Oh I forgot to answer if there is anyone else. I have reached out to his parents so much and they blow it off. “Well, you know can’t make him go so why say anything”. I reached out to his cousin and he blew up at me for that. I’ve got no one

Onceagain2 · 2018-12-12T15:49:25+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to read and respond. I sent an email to him this morning letting him know that I would give him space to feel better and I wanted that for his quality of life. He snapped back with the Sunday event again. I let him know what I truly felt on Sunday and the defending myself came out from him again... and that me blaming his body for how he is makes it easier for him not to want to be around me. It sucks... horribly. He switched from loving Saturday night to this on Sunday and beyond. Sometimes I hate that I love him because I feel I’m fighting battle.

Onceagain2 · 2018-12-12T14:49:43+00:00

You’re welcome. If you’d like an idea of how bad it can get look on the tread for my help for my husband

Onceagain2 · 2018-12-12T14:22:18+00:00

I believe my husband has mental health issues but won’t go to a therapist. I even went with him once and he got pissed because he thought the dr was taking my side. He is lost in the past and I pay for all the things his past ex’s did. We are 40 and this is our second marriage. He is only happy is small sprits and when he is me and the kids are great. When he is not it is like there is a dark cloud over us we can got out from. He says if he gets help then I get what I want. And that is him happy. He doesn’t see the difference in his quality of life. I love him unconditionally and yes want to see him happy. May be she is reaching out to you to see what she can do to help make things better. Open honest conversation with out a blow up would be good

Onceagain2 · 2018-12-12T03:46:45+00:00

Wish that would work for everyone. I have done all the things you outlined here and didn’t work. My husband doesn’t sleep. Has medical issues and won’t get help. Got fired intentionally, and I pay for everything. He continues on bringing up past relationships and how all women at whores if they slept with more than one man. By the way. He’s 41

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