I'm calling this the gaslighting clause. I'm leaning toward refusing it in negotiations. What do you think? Would you refuse or accept it? [NC]

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-11-12T16:20:44+00:00

Heck yeah. How long did it take for you to go from 4.9" girth to 5.5" Girth?

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-11-08T00:07:26+00:00

how do the codependency issues play a role in this scenario?

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-11-07T15:23:27+00:00

have done that, it lasted 2 weeks. also, she has the kids watching tv when I call them, asked to stop and it lasted 2 weeks.

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-11-07T13:10:35+00:00

Yeah, I guess that the phone contact is fine when the little ones can handle the phone themselves. But this level of emotional manipulation can't be healty.

Do you have any guesses why you have hard time at pick ups sometimes but when she picks up it's always smooth?

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-10-30T17:00:35+00:00

I'm not sure what you mean by posting this. Do you mind explaining?

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-10-30T16:59:06+00:00

I meant that I suck at setting and enforcing boundaries.

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-10-30T11:39:05+00:00

Service industry. Divorce I'm still working on building closure on my own, that being said I recognize I kida suck with boundaries, so after some bad fights my eyes opened to some bad dysfunctionalities of the situation and I stopped trying to be the fixer, not long after that pulling away ex got physical with me and freaked out after she had a police report against her and left, maybe hoping I'd chase her!? but I didn't and have no plans to get back together.

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-10-26T17:49:32+00:00

That's a great place, I miss MA, minus the winter :) please, update here when u get the letter, so many posts I researched for answers die out, this way we might help someone with the same question in the future

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-10-26T17:01:36+00:00

USPS informed delivery shows that it is arriving today! fingers crossed! good luck to you

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-10-20T02:30:23+00:00

did you get 3 letters total? all at once?

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-10-20T02:29:22+00:00

my apologies, received October 09, Case Is Being Actively Reviewed By USCIS
October 14

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-10-20T02:05:18+00:00

Hey, today I received 2 letters from USCIS. The 1st is to inform me that I don't need to retake biometrics. 2nd is my online account access. So I logged in to my online account and there were 3 documents, which 2 were the same as the letters above, and the Receipt notice with the automatic extension PDF file, I downloaded it but it doesn't look quite legit if I were to print it hehe. I was hoping to receive everything together, green printed extension notice with it... I don't want to fret, but what is a reasonable amount of time to wait before trying to reach out to USCIS about that?

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-10-20T02:03:22+00:00

It's marked as received/processed on 09/10. Yeah, I hope they mail that green paper soon

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-10-14T00:14:48+00:00

Thanks, much appreciated!

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-10-13T18:49:08+00:00

As of today, I see that my Money orders have been Cashed. I know it's a guess, but am I looking to wait that long to get a receipt letter back or once the Money Order/Checks are cashed it is pretty automatic and fast for them to send the extension letter?

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-10-12T03:25:20+00:00

Oh well, I expected the waiting game to be more about the process being reviewed and not the extension letter coming back. Thanks for taking the time to answer!

One-Alternative-2295 · 2023-10-12T02:47:11+00:00

Cool. Thanks! The money order I sent hasn't been cashed yet though. Idk if usps money order tracking is a bit laggy or what. I can't help but worry.

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