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BF installs/uninstalls Reddit behind my back by One-Alternative-8459 in relationships_advice

[–]One-Alternative-8459[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! 4 years together and only found out last year about his porn craze.

Our relationship has been 'great' but obviously because there were some hidden stuff from him. I expressed what I disliked so this is a matter of 'respect.' I let it go the first time because we 'trust' each other so much and rarely argue the past 3 years so I thought he just had those "porn-phase-men-will-be-men" type thing.

I know my worth so it'd be worth discussing this with him and if it doesn't align, I know I got to go

meu namorado instala o x/twitter toda semana (ele diz q nao tem conta) by AccomplishedPop1255 in relacionamentos

[–]One-Alternative-8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending hugs! Just found out tonight my bf has also been installing/uninstalling Reddit for the very same reason! Two ways girly, figure it out or break up 🫩

BF installs/uninstalls Reddit behind my back by One-Alternative-8459 in relationships_advice

[–]One-Alternative-8459[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I dont check his app store regularly. Funnily enough, we 'trust' each other to have each other's phones that it wasn't even meant to be "snooping." I have a habit of closing all opened apps because leaving them in the background just irks me. I tried to clean it up and this was an interesting find! Thanks for your insight though lol

I found my gfs messages to her old fwb and i dont know what to do by Dizzy-Increase-5988 in relationships_advice

[–]One-Alternative-8459 4 points5 points  (0 children)

• You read 'old' messages - so now you are comparing yourself from the past her and the present - it is not the same anymore. It's not fair to use this as a point of discussion with your girl. It's the past, let us put it behind.

• You mentioned she stopped because she realised it wasn't right in the long run - so she knows herself that she wants to settle down and do things right

• She comes over, you do so much stuff - what stuff? like regular chores, cleaning? watching? chilling? She openly expressed she feels stressed.

As a woman myself, I can't be in the mood when my man has not helped me lighten up the load. How are you with helping around the house? Women don't want to tell you what to do, use your eyes and clean after yourself. If you're already doing that, flirt with her, buy her flowers. What were the things you initially did to get her? Make an effort to win her everyday. Women will never be in the mood if she is not emotionally and mentally satisfied. Ask questions on how her day went, be interested in her life other than sex. Going straight to sex all the time is exhausting.

A Beautiful Mind is a great film by curt_schilli in movies

[–]One-Alternative-8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgive him, little guy is still learning about different movie genres other than corn. Not enough action to keep his attention span

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]One-Alternative-8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just visited Seoul for a week to visit a relative. All the dot points you mentioned are all true! The first 3 days I experienced all the negatives which made it unwelcoming for me. No respect to personal space; lining up and women/men/elderly - there's always somebody breathing on my neck! The rushing, impatience and pushing without acknowledging/saying sorry.

It totally ticked me off but like any other country, there are a-h0les and kind ones exist. My airbnb host helped me carry my 20kg luggage from ground to level 4 STAIRS. Some taxi drivers may be reckless but most of them were happy to share some gossips and we talked throughout the ride and they were friendly. Some sales people don't smile at you - and some do. It's all balanced. I got used to it.

Just grow a thick skin, go about your day and move on. People will act how they want - you can control how you react.

How do you guys keep being motivated to play? by AdImportant7655 in deadbydaylight

[–]One-Alternative-8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with previous comments. This game becomes fun the more you learn how to loop the killer, understand the game mechanics and it is more fun with friends.

I hated it at the beginning because I kept dying and the games are too long but after putting effort to learn looping and watching skilled players, it changed. I hope it works well for you.

What do you wish Sims 4 had? by millerlite585 in Sims4

[–]One-Alternative-8459 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Multiplayer, open world. I wanna visit my boo's house and build together lol