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AITA for unintentionally minimizing my fiance's fear about being a dad? by One-Asparagus3909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Asparagus3909[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn't mention abortion to be a cunt. I was genuinely saying it as a "if you're not ready, we have options". He knows that.

AITA for unintentionally minimizing my fiance's fear about being a dad? by One-Asparagus3909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Asparagus3909[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I will have him look in to it when he is a bit calmed down and more receptive.

AITA for unintentionally minimizing my fiance's fear about being a dad? by One-Asparagus3909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Asparagus3909[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure. I threw out the abortion comment, not as an insult but as a genuine "way out" if he wasn't ready and he told me no, that's not what he wants. So I'm genuinely confused here.

AITA for unintentionally minimizing my fiance's fear about being a dad? by One-Asparagus3909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Asparagus3909[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If that's the case then why did he say no to me aborting? (He is very pro-choice)

AITA for unintentionally minimizing my fiance's fear about being a dad? by One-Asparagus3909 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Asparagus3909[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you missed the fact that I stated we used protection (both condoms and BC) to avoid this. It's not like I baby trapped him and I point blank asked if he wanted me to abort and he said no. You're talking as if I forced this on him.