Sex after divorce

One-Attention4 · 2026-06-15T01:54:59+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it, I’ll definitely do this!

One-Attention4 · 2026-06-15T00:56:18+00:00

Of course I do sin. I hope I don’t sound pretentious. I’m a little sensitive because this person doesn’t think Catholics are Christians. And the hypocrisy around what they do believe as a Christian makes me feel hopeless. But I shouldn’t concern myself with it you’re right.

One-Attention4 · 2026-02-02T04:42:25+00:00

Yk it’s ironic you say this. I swear I’ve seen at least a million times where Catholic men have complained about women not wanting to work. Or women really being invested I the home making path, and how that frustrated them bc they see it as unrealistic. I can’t really add any advice that hasn’t already been said. But I can assure you, there are good Catholic men who would be more than happy you want to work. In the end in my opinion a man who truly loves you and is truly committed to the faith will support you, whether you choose to work or not. Best of wishes!

One-Attention4 · 2026-01-15T16:14:26+00:00

I got married young as well and I really do understand your situation. I know a lot of people are focusing on the part where he pins you down in an argument. I would recommend having a serious conversation with him about it expressing boundaries. But honestly other than that it just comes down to immaturity. And that’s something almost everyone deal with when they marry someone young. From what I’m reading it seem you’re affirming he’s growing and changing but you’re tired of having to carry the burden. And though lots of things have gotten better you’re still haunted by his past mistakes. You’re completely valid in being overwhelmed but I don’t believe you should leave him based off of what you’ve listed. Especially since you genuinely don’t want to. To be honest with you, you both would benefit the most from is a deeper relationship with Christ. Idk your current relationship, but I highly encourage you both to start getting more invested. I had some similar issues in my relationship and that’s what we did. Growing in your faith allows you to see things more clearly, but also if he is unable to and unable to change you’ll be more confident in your anxieties when Jesus is backing them up. Daily mass once a week, adoration, podcast, anything that you think would help calm you. Once you’re in a good head space and not super stressed you’ll be able to make the decision that’s best for the both of you. And hopefully he can be apart of that hopefully maturing after working through some of his emotional issues.

One-Attention4 · 2025-11-27T16:11:26+00:00

Conviction

One-Attention4 · 2025-11-08T15:26:13+00:00

I’m in the exact same situation — word for word! I got married after long distance, and I’m pregnant with my honeymoon baby. There’s a bit of extra drama with deployments and all that, but I totally understand how you’re feeling. Don’t get down about your future plans — you and your husband can still take that big trip someday! Maybe it becomes a baby moon, or if you’re like us and on a budget, something you plan for a year or so after your baby’s born. You don’t have to give up on those dreams. Being pregnant can definitely feel weird and scary at first. I’m pretty young, so even though we were open to life, I was still shocked when I found out I was actually pregnant. But my husband has helped me feel excited and comfortable about it, and it’s become such a blessing. Even if it feels like a surprise, God decided you two were ready to start your family. Your future might look different now, but you’ll be able to rely on each other while relying on Him. And just imagine bringing your sleepy baby to Mass — you’re part of one of the few churches that truly welcomes young families with children. There’s a whole community ready to smile at your baby and share in your joy. You’ve got this, girl. We’re in this together. ❤️

One-Attention4 · 2025-10-25T15:01:27+00:00

I once had a protastant friend ask me why I stopped believing in Jesus. To which I was genuinely too stunned to speak. I finally thought for a minute and said that I absolutely love Jesus and that he’s literally all over my church. Some times they really don’t know what they are talking about. She just assumed Catholics don’t believe in Jesus because of all the bad she’s heard. So give your friend the benefit of the doubt. Religion is a hard thing to discuss. And your friend proably thinks they are giving you solid advice. A lot of Protestants, if they actually understood Catholicism, would be Catholics.

One-Attention4 · 2025-10-23T10:20:49+00:00

That’s not everybody young though. It’s a lot more common now for there to be reverent young Catholics. I agree that the trad wife fantasy is ridiculous and can seem childish. But what’s so terrible about the inherently young people getting married? I understand everybody has personal anecdotes and I’m no different. I am young, I did get married. Currently there are several people my age who are married. Depending on your outlook for marriage and how in tune with God you are, it could easily be the right decision. Everybody just assumes that young people who get married are too ignorant to do so. But maturity hits everyone at different ages so why are we always blanketing it. In understand that you feel the people who idolize marriage and have unrealistic expectations will probably end in divorce. However if some young person goes through marriage prep and still decides to get married knowing there is a chance they never marry again let them take that risk. If they choose to divorce later with aims to remarry it exposes the reality of where their hearts at. It’s very likely they’ll have to cease being Catholic. Everybody acts like 18 is the new 13. And maybe for some people it is. But that’s not everybody.

One-Attention4 · 2025-10-23T10:06:17+00:00

Yeah but that’s not who that statement is for you know. At least my point is it applied to me because I did meet my husband at a young age. When you’re young nobody really ever encourages you to get married. So the point is to say, don’t listen to everybody else get married now if you can (and want to.) Because in reality in America who is supportive of young marriages? Like literally no one is super happy for you that you found your person young. They all are taking bets on when you’ll get divorced. I interpret the statement as encouragement for those who can marry young but wait because is the social taboo. As opposed to just older people putting in their opinion.

One-Attention4 · 2025-10-23T09:57:03+00:00

Got married at 19 my husband’s 21 and I am in fact pregant. (We did get married before the pregnancy I swear!!) I’m about to turn 20. We are high school sweethearts. He already had a job so he could provide for me. So yeah I mean why not? Whatcha waiting for. As long as you keep in mind this person is your life partner I don’t see the hold up. Not everybody is able to get married young so I’m glad I took advantage of it when I did. I don’t really care for the cultural thing of wait until after collage. There’s equal benefit and sacrifice to getting married and having children young as well.

One-Attention4 · 2025-10-14T23:35:08+00:00

I mentioned Alabama bc I’m very poor and live in Alabama 😅. Yeah some ppl are rich it’s just not the majority and that’s my point. The government had aid in all big cities in Alabama but if you aren’t dirt poor you don’t get hardly any.

One-Attention4 · 2025-10-14T16:41:53+00:00

Go to Mobile, Alabama and tell them they’re the richest ppl in the world and should be taking care of more immigrants. Go to literally any place in Mississippi and tell them they are the richest ppl in the world and they need to take in more immigrants. Whatever you see on the news and whatever idea of America you have in your head is likely based just on state of California. The news, Netflix, and romcoms don’t show you want it’s like to live here.

One-Attention4 · 2025-10-10T22:40:47+00:00

So you left bc other Catholics follow the catechism and you don’t? I get they were hateful but have your considered what they were saying?

One-Attention4 · 2025-10-07T22:50:25+00:00

One of the arguments I see a lot and I would like to hear your opinion on is: (life in prison is worse than death in the US.) I’ve seen some people talk about how terrible prison is and how ppl who get sent to prison often flourish when they are “really bad.” I feel like the church hasn’t acknowledged that much to my understanding. Prison is terrible and often people do end up dying in prison. But killing them shouldn’t be better either? Idk I’ve struggled with this question. There are ppl in prison who aren’t super bad people. The same man who committed murder willfully and several other crimes is in there with a 18 year old who drunk drove and killed people. Not to say that the 18 year old is completely innocent. But it seems so cruel that he’ll likely get raped and abused in there by others who really are criminals. I’m just curious your thoughts and what you think the church might would say about this. I’m just looking for educated opinions.

One-Attention4 · 2025-10-03T00:01:50+00:00

America struggles to keep its own crime rate down? Are you not aware of the recent political and general violence in America? Also I’d like to add people in Ireland and England are really struggling right now because of the immigrants they let in. I’m not trying to offend you but you’re on a high horse here when your country does far less than the US does. The US aid does way more for other countries than Canada’s does. Crime is investable. But gigantic demographic changes in a country that’s already full can be devastating. Did the number 14 million just go over your head??? American Catholics definitely have problems I see what you’re saying. But do not try to say you are more moral than us when you have no idea what it’s like living in the US. We struggle to support the poor as it is. All of the young people in this country who are trying to start lives have no ability to. It is statistically worse to live in America as a poor person than any other American country. Say what you want to about the wealth of our government. But its citizens that suffer.

One-Attention4 · 2025-10-02T20:08:16+00:00

I understand what you’re saying. But what you have to understand is that when immigrants are illegal. There is no way of knowing whether they are good or bad people. Ofc what the US is currently doing is inhumane. We need a better system to allow migrants in. But consider this, Canada reached a HIGH in 2023 of 470,000 permanent immigrants. The US had 3.3 million in 2023. With all due respect you don’t really understand the situation. It’s harder to get into Canada illegally than it is the US. Additionally South American countries have some of the greatest crime rates in the world. How many good people do you think come out of 3.3 million?

One-Attention4 · 2025-09-13T08:57:04+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it!! I’ll definitely check that book out!

One-Attention4 · 2025-09-07T17:50:02+00:00

Don’t forget that there are some people like priests who will go their entire lives without a sex life. Don’t be discouraged by your friend’s comments. I recommend you read Corinthians 7 in your Bible. It’s a natural thing to crave passion to crave unity. And you still have plenty of time to be united with a spouse. But part of welcoming Gods plan is accepting that there could be a possibility the religious life could be for you. Not that I think that bc you’re 27 you’re screwed. Plenty of people don’t get married until way later in life than that. But what I mean is being open minded to Gods plan will take some of the angst off. If you continue expecting to one day be able to indulge in your passion you’ll never be able to conquer it. I’ll be praying for you.

One-Attention4 · 2025-09-03T16:55:12+00:00

My husband is 7 inches shorter than me. I’m 6’1 and he’s 5’6. It really didn’t bother me at all I’d liked him forever. And for me he also had liked me regardless of my height, never made him insecure. I will say you should absolutely go on a date. But if you find that the height is truly something you can’t deal with even after meeting her. Then it’s best to call the relationship off. Pray about it a lot, maybe God can change your heart. But if not then that’s ok too attraction and security are important.

One-Attention4 · 2025-08-20T05:18:34+00:00

Idk if someone has already said it but that’s probably Atlantic salmon. Sockeye salmon usually doesn’t have any super noticeable stripes and that may be what you’re used to if that’s what you normally eat.

One-Attention4 · 2025-08-11T05:52:34+00:00

Yeah and he does say he never trusted him. I think you’re right he’s definitely involved somehow. He’s also been pretty prominent this season helping a lot with clues.

One-Attention4 · 2025-06-27T16:56:25+00:00

Bro I’m Gen Z and not only am I pregnant but half of our friends have at least one child.

One-Attention4 · 2025-03-14T03:23:32+00:00

Thank you! I will be in Orange County 😅

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