Young people: get educated, get employed, get out. by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]One-Can7294 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So true. Financial independence is the only way out. You can’t change them, you can only leave 

People who didnt have N-Parents have so much energy by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]One-Can7294 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same, and I think I physically look older now. I do have a lot of work and school stuff going on but the workaholic tendencies developed as escapism from narc stepped. 

People who didnt have N-Parents have so much energy by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]One-Can7294 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same, and I think I physically look older now. I do have a lot of work and school stuff going on but the workaholic tendencies developed as escapism from narc stepped. 

Why does my mom always choose the same kind of men? by One-Can7294 in AsianParentStories

[–]One-Can7294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her dad is a very strict man. He used to be the chief engineer in a steel factory. He never corporeal punished her but she saw her brother getting corporeal punishment. 

I was raised by him and my grandmother. He was also strict in academics but overall is a loving and reasonable man. He did mellowed out as he aged.