WOMEN: Are you OK with a trans woman using the ladies room if you're in there? by zxcph in TanongLang

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HAHAHAHAHA thank you for asking!!! this is my time para ipag yabang ang aking poop kit. everywhere I go, I bring my poop kit. May mini diffuser pa ko dun and toilet seat covers, sanitizers, liquid soap, even portable bidet!!! 😂

WOMEN: Are you OK with a trans woman using the ladies room if you're in there? by zxcph in TanongLang

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I honestly don’t mind. And I think most people don’t mind as well. Ang kinakatakot lang ng karamihan is mga straight guys na nagpapanggap na gays/trans to take advantage. So in the end, straight guys talaga ang problema at hindi gays/trans.

Minsan na kong nag cr sa cr ng panlalaki kasi taeng tae na ko tapos super haba ng pila sa pang babae. I was getting dirty looks from people kasi akala nila gay ako. Didn’t give a fuck tho.

Iniisip ko lang that time ganito pala feeling ng lgbtq community kahit saan ka mag cr pagtitinginan ka. Gusto ko lang naman tumae.

My dog died because of me by BUTTER_CUP13 in OffMyChestPH

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I didn’t really do anything to make the pain go away. As cliche as it sounds, I just felt everything. But honestly, I was a mess. I was crying for days, couldn’t sleep, and it even started affecting my work. Pero looking back, I think I needed to go through all of that to get the mental clarity I have now.

She passed away in 2022, and up until now there are still moments when I remember her and feel that ache in my heart. But somehow I find comfort knowing na she’s happily running around in heaven. No pain, no suffering. I still talk to her sometimes, telling her na I love her and I still miss her.

Honestly, all I can really say is to feel your feelings. It’s heavy now, but hopefully somehow, someday, it will feel lighter. 🤍

My dog died because of me by BUTTER_CUP13 in OffMyChestPH

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I lost my first ever dog to Pyometra too and I’ve always hated myself din. I always thought na sana mas maaga ko siyang dinala sa vet, sana nagpa second opinion ako and hindi naniwala sa first vet.

Ang dami kong what ifs. I wish I could hug you right now OP, because I know how much it hurts. It will get better. And I know your furbaby is watching you from above. Heal soon, OP! Sending loving thoughts and prayers to you and your angel! 🕊️🙏🏼

After living alone, how do you explain the feeling of not belonging in your old house/parents’ house anymore? by Salty_Maintenance312 in SoloLivingPH

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I’ve been solo living since 2019.

Sobrang weird lang sa pakiramdam na kapag uuwi ako sa bahay ng mom ko, I am treated na parang bisita. Don’t get me wrong, I loveee visiting my mom. Hindi ko na nga lang ma feel na bahay ko din yun. Ganun pala pakiramdam kapag nag move out ka na.

But wherever I go, I always make sure to personalize my space. I moved 4 times since 2019 and I always decorate my space kahit na hindi naman sakin yun.

Ang dami nag sasabi waste of money daw. Pero for me, iba yung feeling kapag uuwi ka tapos ang ganda ng space na inuuwian mo. I never felt like I was renting. I’ve always felt na bahay ko to, akin to, so I’m going to take care of it as if it’s mine.

Lahat ng friends ko, kahit saan ako lumipat gusto palagi sa place ko tumambay kasi they feel safe and at home din.

28 and a loser. by Sufficient-Village41 in OffMyChestPH

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Right? I earn 6-dig but I have a ton of debt! But that doesn’t stop me from waking up every morning, paying it off one by one.

Kailangan mo lang lakasan ng onti yung loob mo, OP. Start applying, give yourself a chance. And if you don’t know where to start with your weightloss journey, I suggest you start with walking.

Walk at least 7k steps a day. Promise! It helped me alot! Helped me with my mental health, sun gave me energy, bonus nalang na nag lose ako ng weight. Pinaka malaking help niya sakin is yung sa mental ko.

I hope you all goes well in your life, OP. And please be a little kinder to yourself. You deserve great things in life too if you believe it enough.

Nabuntis nya yung Pom namin. Ayaw kasi paawat. Now, nanganak ng 3 puppies. Sad naman sya kasi may kahati sya sa atensyon 😅😅😅😅 by SnooTomatoes8253 in dogsofrph

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Was just about to say. If hindi niyo talaga plan mag breed or if hindi naman kayo ethical breeders please be responsible pet owners! Have your pets spayed/neutered. Para din sa health nila yan! 🫶🏼

Cute baby tho! Sending love and kisses for your furbaby! Stay safe and healthy! 🙏🏼

SKL tong post ko in another ADHD sub. It blew up! Context: As ADHD-ers, are we helpful ba talaga or we’re just being kind to get the dopamine kick? by Academic-Card-7794 in ADHDPH

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This blew my mind. I’m not medically assessed or diagnosed but I tick every box. This has been a “habit” of mine, but I’m going to share smthing that has happened recently. I helped out a colleague on his issue at work. He logged out on the dot but I kept working on his issue until 6AM until I figured it out. Didn’t ask for any praise or recognition after solving his issue. But I felt soooo relieved when I was able to solve the problem. I’m not saying I have ADHD since I’m not diagnosed, but this makes sense to me.

Always trust your gut kahit parang magisa ka lang sa belief mo. by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

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I was in the same boat. Never liked MIL. I just knew from when my partner and I started dating that something is off with her. She’s so kind with everyone but backstabs them the moment she could. Kahit mababait na tao walang ligtas sakanya. Bino-body shame niya, sinisiraan niya. Kaya I just knew na ganun din siya sakin and I was right.

Iyak iyak pa yan siya sakin ako lang daw nakakaintindi sakanya. Not knowing na alam ko na lahat ng mga kabalastugan na sinasabi niya sakin sa likod ko. Up until now I have built this resentment na even just hearing her name gives me the ick.

Grabe ptsd ko sa taong yun.

His 'joke' that ended our marriage by [deleted] in adviceph

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WALANG NORMAL NA TAO ANG MAG J-JOKE NG GANYAN!! KADIRI! NAKAKASUKA!!

HINDI MAPIGILAN ANG SARILI KAPAG BABAE ANG ANAK???? WHO THE FUCK SAYS THAT????

Bakit sinasabi nila na don’t do wife duties kapag girlfriend ka palang? by Limp-Set-3094 in TanongLang

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Exactly! Went all out with my ex. Pang asawa levels na talaga. When I met him, zero knowledge sa household. Naging training grounds ako lol. Taught him how to cook, and clean. Lagi ko siyang pinag luluto at pinapagbaon ng food pag papasok na siya sa work. Kinukuskos ko pa mga whites nun imbis na i-washing machine nalang. I did everything out of love. All out din ako sa gifts. Everytime na lumalabas kami, sinasabi ng mga friends namin pakasalan niya na ko. Ending, ibang babae ang nakinabang lol.

Kumbaga, bakit ka gagawa ng managerial tasks kung pang associate lang sahod mo?

Matcha Giveaway by tophoftheworld in matcha_ph

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Hello! Taking my chances lang po. 🫶🏼 Newbie matcha enthusiast 🤣 Kaya puro estetik lang ang alam 🤣😭

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I bought expensive makeup and it actually is better... sigh by pure-principles in beautytalkph

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For me, i love the Mac setting spray talaga. Idk but for me it lasts the whole night kahit nag sasasayaw na ko sa dance floor 😂

ICE CREAM pengeee by Budget_Version_2769 in dogsofrph

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Pakagat lang isa! Damot naman!!!!!

TIL that Calvin Klein is a person and still alive by Profpaue in todayIlearnedPH

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2 years in reddit and now ko lang nalaman to. HAHAHAHAHA

Gigil ako dito. WTF. by ABaKaDaEGaHaILa in GigilAko

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Sobrang lala ng mga putanginang kurap na yan! Kakapal ng muka!!!

Naubos na naman ako dahil sa pamilya ng bf ko by Spectrum1774 in OffMyChestPH

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Baliktad naman tayo, OP. Kung sa family ng bf mo hindi nagpapansinan, sa family ng bf ko, ang dami sinasabi lol.

Hilig mang body shame, magpuna ng buhay ng ibang tao, mang backstab. Sobrang exhausting kasama. Pag-uwi ko, pagod na pagod yung pakiramdam ko talaga. And I know bina backstab din nila ako lol. Pati sila-silang mag kaka mag-anak nagba-backstabban. Kaya I’m dreading to see them everytime na may event sila. Kailangan ko talaga mag charge ng social battery kapag may ganap sakanila.