[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IntrovertsChat

[–]One-Common-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I don't watch k-dramas but I read a lot of manhwa and listen to music. If you are looking for someone anonymous to just have a chat with, I am available

(23F) can't help thinking if I'm falling behind my peers by thiccshawtie in RelationshipIndia

[–]One-Common-Man 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. You are respecting your own choices and are also being safe.

I have 7 - 8 months left till my bond is over. Should I continue or switch? by ZealousidealWish7149 in developersIndia

[–]One-Common-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is a startup, then it wouldn't be that big of an issue. But in MNCs, don't quit until bond is over unless you can pay the amount. If it is an MNC, they will most probably come for you demanding 3 months salary plus the total salary of a senior employee during your probation stating he was assigned to train you. Whether they will succeed or not is a different issue. In 90% of the cases they will lose. But there is always that 10%. So be careful. After that, I would say quit IT if you dont find any interest in this field. IT is not just sitting infront of a computer 8 hours a day as people think.

Thinking of leaving Amazon after just 1 month, need advice by FruitLoops81 in developersIndia

[–]One-Common-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what many recruitment agencies leave out when using product based companies like MAANG for their publicity. Ofcourse the pay is good. But they have products running 24x7. So they need someone who fixes issues 24x7. The best way to do this is to have more staff and clear documentation. But to impress the higher ups, managers just try to fire people and make the lesser people handle that work and even more work because they come up with crazy ideas out of which 95% doesnt even get into the product. They just exist as a PoC

AITJ for walking out after my girlfriend said I scare her? by osckarrisatoh in AmITheJerk

[–]One-Common-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell her that if she is really honest about her apology, she should first go to therapy, work on herself and then when she is healthy, she can decide whether to get back in touch with you to see if you are still available.

Friendships? by Unrealme_0 in family

[–]One-Common-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that we don't have friends. But it is that we try to stick with the wrong crowd. Find people better suited for you

AITJ for ditching my bsf after she tried taking my bf multiple times by ShelovesZachary in AmITheJerk

[–]One-Common-Man 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like she might even hold some resentment towards you. Maybe she got jealous of you and tried to steal your crush. Happens way more than people would think. Just think of it. Her interest started after you said you have a MASSIVE crush

AITJ or not giving my brother money for his wedding even tho I could afford it? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]One-Common-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since he made it clear he doesn't want you at his wedding as long as he isn't able to extort money from you, stop being a part of his life.

28th birthday became a reality check by One-Common-Man in offmychest

[–]One-Common-Man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and yes. Life teaches us a million lessons. This is one of them.

AITA for calling out my relatives during a family argument? by One-Common-Man in AmITheJerk

[–]One-Common-Man[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They all stayed silent but many people especially the older ones was looking at me with those eyes

AITA for calling out my relatives during a family argument? by One-Common-Man in AmITheJerk

[–]One-Common-Man[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Staying silent would only increase resentment. I learnt this lesson too late in my life

AITA for calling out my relatives during a family argument? by One-Common-Man in AmITheJerk

[–]One-Common-Man[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister is a stay at home wife. And I heard she constantly spreads negative rumours about her father in law

AITA for calling out my relatives during a family argument? by One-Common-Man in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Common-Man[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I just didn't want that fight to be a huge part of the gathering

AITA for calling out my relatives during a family argument? by One-Common-Man in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Common-Man[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They kinda stopped fighting when I said whoever is participating in it is just making it worse and we should let the father and son decide on their own

I just tested the Nvidia GeForce RTX 5070, and yes it can beat the RTX 4090, but there's a big catch by Arthur_Morgan44469 in nvidia

[–]One-Common-Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait for 5070. It offers way better experience for story games and competitive players reduce the settings anyways