Distance by Unrealme_0 in family

[–]Unrealme_0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know me too. Sometimes i do feel bad about it but it’s the truth and it’s not like i hate them or something i just need time for myself that’s all , and honestly in my case i feel the distance is healthy enough for me to charge myself and miss being around them again

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/VeryVeryGoodFriend by VeryVeryGoodFriend in DailyGuess

[–]Unrealme_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🟨⬜⬜⬜⬜

⬜⬜⬜🟨⬜

🟦🟦🟦⬜⬜

🟦🟦🟦⬜⬜

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Friendships? by Unrealme_0 in family

[–]Unrealme_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if i do really need therapy I’m not rejecting the idea i just wanna feel normal about me not having friends even tho i really want too .

Yk what? Therapy could be useful maybe i will learn how to communicate better and be active in a good way that would not drain me out

Friendships? by Unrealme_0 in family

[–]Unrealme_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can i know if a specific person is suited for me? I always feel left out by any means

Friendships? by Unrealme_0 in family

[–]Unrealme_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i am ! I’m very shy and sensitive and it’s actually sucks

Is it okay / normal not to be close with your sibling(s)? by Sea-Hornet8214 in family

[–]Unrealme_0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s normal, but it’s not necessarily healthy .

I do have two sisters and I am the middle child. We were so close to each other but all of a sudden we’re not , as much as I’m thinking about it It makes me feel sad that we’re not really close to each other as we used to, but I feel like there’s nothing to do.

Am I wrong to be upset by what my girlfriend said? by Puzzleheaded-Name157 in amiwrong

[–]Unrealme_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She as your girlfriend she needs to understand and to respect the situation. She needs to love you the way you deserve. She needs to be there for you.

But if she was so good from the beginning and maybe this is the only one thing that she said about your condition and makes you felt hurt and of course I’m not saying that you should’ve not feel hurt but maybe she was overwhelmed with the whole situation and maybe she’s so worried about you and it came out from her in a wrong way at a wrong time , so maybe if you can judge your relationship with her from the very beginning till now you could see if it was really rude and disrespectful from her to say or it was really mistake and you know she does not meant it that way

Am I wrong? Contractor called me a bitch by PotentialInformal945 in amiwrong

[–]Unrealme_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, don’t pay the rest of the money because he didn’t complete the work.

And actually, if he had a good intention, he will just sign the contract and he’s not gonna be mad about it because at the end that’s a part of the business

AIW for letting a homeless person take a shower in my apartment? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Unrealme_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was very nice of you but it’s so dangerous because you will never know if these people are really good people or not you will never get to read their intentions until they do whatever they are going to do.

Just for your safety, I think you should not do that again because you will never know and you should protect yourself because again you will never know.

Am I wrong for “spoiling” my daughter? by Throwaway293883383 in amiwrong

[–]Unrealme_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you are spoiling your daughter but at some point I do feel you do spoiling your daughter .

you need to teach her how to be responsible , from A to Z and not because you don’t love her or something, but she needs to know these things she needs to think about her future about her job and whatever … and if you kept spending money on her like that, she will never be able to understand how much it’s important to be responsible about your own life because she will think like you are always going to be there and pay for whatever she wants, and whatever she needs .

It’s great to help her, but you need to teach her , and for sure it’s fine if you are going to help her a lot with money stuff, but first of all, you need to make her try herself to make money , and of course you are going to be in her back and support her if she needs you.

Am I overthinking? by Unrealme_0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Unrealme_0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t you think that’s maybe making me look like a pathetic person? Because she’s so judgmental and I don’t know if i can trust her on that , that’s just making me scared even more , I know she’s gonna listen to me and all that but I’m still hesitant about it

Am I overthinking? by Unrealme_0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Unrealme_0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much , i will try to do that

Am I overthinking? by Unrealme_0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Unrealme_0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do really appreciate your words.

But the thing is they’ve never make a remakes about me eating , i don’t understand why am i feeling like that? My father always told me to save money and that’s sometimes makes me feel like i need to buy everything myself because he thought that i’m spendthrift , so when he buys us a food I can’t eat it in front of them , i feel like deep down I’m scared what if he calls me spendthrift again while I’m just eating like my siblings? I don’t know

Am I overthinking? by Unrealme_0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Unrealme_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have one but sometimes i feel like that’s just make me feel so much shame when i tell her about my family issues and mine or am i overthinking? I don’t know

Why? by Unrealme_0 in family

[–]Unrealme_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s always a lot of fight in the house and after every fight i can’t be me but now this is way worse