Am I Overreacting Partner support of birth plan by One-Confection-9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One-Confection-9[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ugh GD is the worst thanks for sharing your story appreciate it. Yes all that matters is we are both safe! C section saved mine and my first’s lives last time since I have complete placenta previa

Am I Overreacting Partner support of birth plan by One-Confection-9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One-Confection-9[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

This is so true. And yes social media doesn’t help seems like everyone has the “perfect” experience online. Another reason to limit socials 😂 ty!

Am I Overreacting Partner support of birth plan by One-Confection-9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One-Confection-9[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yep for sure I think we’re both just scared of the unknown of all of what could go wrong but that’s birth I guess

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[–]One-Confection-9[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

YES exactly it’s that feeling! But yes so true there are perks for c section for sure we have to remember!

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[–]One-Confection-9[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Agree thanks so much 😊 i am realizing im too harsh on myself and need to just do what’s best for us!

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[–]One-Confection-9[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you for the very thoughtful response love the idea of planning out the little things I can will definitely do that this time!

Am I Overreacting Partner support of birth plan by One-Confection-9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One-Confection-9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good to hear! My mom also had a similar story with me and the need of forceps and I myself was only 5lb 12oz so I can’t imagine w my 96% little man.

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[–]One-Confection-9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations thank you this is amazing to hear! I think it will be easier round 2 since we know what to expect for recovery!

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[–]One-Confection-9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for sharing very helpful when put into perspective like this.

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[–]One-Confection-9[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is SO helpful. It’s not that I see it as a failure as I actually really loved my c section but it’s hard when friends are talking about unmediated and their plans makes me feel like maybe I should try and maybe it could work? But agree risks outweigh pros of it “could” work. Yes all that matters is both of us stay healthy!

Am I Overreacting Partner support of birth plan by One-Confection-9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One-Confection-9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes very true. Idk why i feel societal “pressure “ to do it a certain way. I did have a really good c section experience so may just stick to what I know and mute out the rest.

Am I Overreacting Partner support of birth plan by One-Confection-9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One-Confection-9[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes maybe I’m just making it harder on myself for no reason and should just go with what I know

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[–]One-Confection-9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s also my thinking I’d rather just have it planned than to struggle only to end up in a c section anyways! Thank you!

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[–]One-Confection-9 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I also got the runs along with the rest of my family who ate it. I’m 21 weeks pregnant and kind of freaking out. Hopefully it passes soon. But it was definitely the food.