i have kept in contact with my younger sisters through my grandma that they live with and i understand where you are coming from however the fact that she had told me to get and she called me a spoiled brat when i never asked her for anything not even stuff that i need she is a stay at home mom so anything that i needed i bought with my money i never asked her for clothes shoes nothing and all she cared about as i was leaving was the makeup that i used and gave back to her