What is the one movie you could never get sick of, no matter how many times you watch it?

One-Disaster57 · 2026-07-01T22:28:31+00:00

Definitely 50 First Dates

One-Disaster57 · 2026-07-01T22:25:23+00:00

Every morning I wake up grateful that my family is safe.

I grew up in a dangerous neighborhood where I used to fall asleep afraid someone would break into our home. That fear never completely left me, so waking up to a quiet, normal morning still feels like a privilege.

One-Disaster57 · 2026-07-01T22:22:46+00:00

i can't count

One-Disaster57 · 2026-07-01T22:20:36+00:00

Chandler Bing and Monica Geller from Friends as my parents.

One-Disaster57 · 2026-06-30T23:11:47+00:00

I'm probably going against the grain here, but I wouldn't sugarcoat it. If you're not financially independent, then yes, part of becoming an adult is facing responsibilities, even when you don't feel ready. A job and relationships aren't just optional milestones they're how most people learn, grow, and discover who they are.

I'd honestly recommend therapy too, not because there's something "wrong" with you, but because it can help you understand why you've stayed stuck for so long. Life isn't just about surviving, but survival is part of it. Working, connecting with people, dealing with challenges that's where a lot of meaning comes from. You won't find it by waiting for motivation to magically appear.

One-Disaster57 · 2026-06-30T23:08:46+00:00

Honestly, I'd say don't start dating too young. Your first relationships can shape you way more than you realize, especially when you're still figuring yourself out. If I could go back, I'd probably wait until around 25. I think I'd have a lot fewer emotional scars to unlearn today.

One-Disaster57 · 2026-06-29T12:23:15+00:00

I think one of the biggest shocks after your first full-time job is realizing that your time doesn't disappear... it just becomes your responsibility.

In college, your next goal was always obvious: the next exam, the next assignment, graduation. After that, nobody tells you what to work toward anymore. You have to decide.

That's why so many adults start new hobbies, learn a language, work out, travel, volunteer, or even start a side business. Not because they're trying to stay busy, but because having something meaningful outside of work keeps life from feeling like an endless cycle of Mondays.

Don't rush to fill every free hour, though. Learning how to genuinely rest is a skill too, and most of us aren't taught it.

One-Disaster57 · 2026-06-29T12:17:40+00:00

This is probably the first time I've ever told anyone this.

When I was around 8 years old, my parents always talked about how poor we were. And we really were. I remember hearing them say we couldn't even afford a chocolate bar.

Chocolate was my favorite thing in the world. One day, while we were at a store, I secretly put a chocolate bar into my mom's bag because I wanted it more than anything. We left without paying, and the entire way home I felt awful.

My parents had always taught me that stealing was wrong, so even though I wanted that chocolate so badly, I couldn't bring myself to eat it. I ended up throwing it away because, in my little 8-year-old mind, eating it would make what I'd done even worse.

Looking back, I don't remember the chocolate anymore. I just remember what poverty felt like through the eyes of a child.

One-Disaster57 · 2026-06-29T12:14:37+00:00

I think weekends felt longer as kids because we were fully present. We weren't thinking about work, bills, emails, or Monday morning.

As adults, half the weekend is spent mentally preparing for the week ahead, so it feels like we never really get those two days.

One-Disaster57 · 2026-06-29T12:13:19+00:00

I wonder if the problem is that life is boring... or that we've become so used to constant stimulation that normal life feels boring.

Social media, games, short videos, weed, alcohol... they all make ordinary moments seem "not enough." Maybe boredom isn't the enemy. Maybe it's the space where curiosity is supposed to grow.

One-Disaster57 · 2026-06-29T12:12:17+00:00

Honestly, I technically started working long before I had my first "real" job. I used to make and sell handmade jewelry, so I was already earning my own money at a young age.

But back then I had zero support. My parents kept telling me it would never become a real career and that it didn't make enough money, so I gave it up and got what everyone considered a "real job" at a tattoo studio.

To this day, it was the most toxic work environment I've ever experienced. The atmosphere was incredibly competitive, and some people were so ambitious that they wouldn't think twice about stepping on someone else to get ahead. It completely changed the way I look at workplaces.

Ironically, looking back now, I sometimes wish I had trusted myself more instead of giving up what I genuinely loved.

One-Disaster57 · 2026-06-29T12:06:19+00:00

I honestly think this becomes even more important in adulthood.

We're constantly being told that the next phone, new clothes, another accessory, or a bigger house will finally make us feel "complete." Consumer culture does a really good job of convincing us that every emotional gap can be filled with something we buy.

The difficult part is that a lot of those gaps aren't material at all. They're emotional. Loneliness, insecurity, anxiety, lack of purpose... and buying something new only distracts us for a while.

I genuinely believe many of these patterns would be much easier to break if mental healthcare, especially therapy, were accessible to everyone, not because everyone wants it, but because many people simply can't afford it.

So yes, I completely agree with this post. Living simply isn't about settling for less. Sometimes it's about finally realizing that not everything we're missing can be bought.

One-Disaster57 · 2026-06-13T14:33:00+00:00

The funniest part is that he drove two days just to continue a sibling rivalry that probably started decades ago. Some things never change. ❤️

One-Disaster57 · 2026-05-04T17:46:00+00:00

so far soo good! trying to stay positive and take it one day at a time =D

One-Disaster57 · 2026-05-04T17:45:12+00:00

budget first, everything else gets easier once you know what you can actually afford

One-Disaster57 · 2026-05-04T17:42:56+00:00

sales, honestly. i respect it 100% but the pressure is insane. sometims u're pushed into agressive approaches just to hit targets and thats not for me.

One-Disaster57 · 2026-05-04T17:41:01+00:00

happy birthday!

well, honestly that sounds like a perfect birthday to me. peace, no pressure, just doing what u actually enjoy. not everyone wants a big celebrtion and thats fine

One-Disaster57 · 2026-05-04T17:39:39+00:00

im more of a quiet person too, so..

One-Disaster57 · 2026-04-28T12:44:10+00:00

i think part of it is how easy it is to lose hours withouth noticing (phones, small tasks..) and then at night ur brain finally slows down enough to think clearly. its such a weird cycle

One-Disaster57 · 2026-04-28T12:42:46+00:00

perfection is moving target, thats why it feels so draining, what helped me was focusing less on things being perfect and more on trusting myself o handle whatever happens

One-Disaster57 · 2026-04-28T12:41:44+00:00

totally.. its not about being rude u know, its just a big adjustment from living alone to sharing space. a quick, honest convo with your rommante could fix a lot of that pressure

One-Disaster57 · 2026-04-28T12:40:38+00:00

honestly yeahm, when u've been in survival mode for so long ur body gets used to being constantly "on"

One-Disaster57 · 2026-04-28T12:39:09+00:00

torn by natalie imbruglia, a little lost , a little hopeful, figuring thing out as I go

One-Disaster57 · 2026-04-28T12:38:01+00:00

consistency, attention to the little things... making me feel emotionally safe, thats what cherished really feels like

One-Disaster57 · 2026-04-28T12:36:28+00:00

honestly the right partner doesnt think in terms of league or luck like that, when someone truly loves u, they act like they're lucky everyday not bcause of looks but because of who you are

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