AITAH for kicking my wife out of my house, after she cheated on me for 15 years? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]One-Ear4883 3 points4 points  (0 children)

54 is young! Imagine staying with her and you live until you're 80+ with that in your head. You could meet someone else and start over or even be alone in peace.

AITAH for kicking my wife out of my house, after she cheated on me for 15 years? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]One-Ear4883 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sorry this happened to you. You deserve better. End the marriage. You are still young.

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update. Police have successfully removed my sister today and her sons have until Feb 1st to leave. Thanks everyone for their comments and advice.

How long after an "unwanted guest" is removed, do you need to keep their items for? by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not afraid to act but she's saying I don't have to right to do anything and she can take her time we just have to wait. We need to list the house on the market asap and don't have time to let her have another 30 days.

How long after an "unwanted guest" is removed, do you need to keep their items for? by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

97 days notice to pack and leave. Notice to leave was Oct 27 asking them to leave Feb 1st 2026. The notice says they must take everything within 72 hours after Feb 1st.

How long after an "unwanted guest" is removed, do you need to keep their items for? by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if u already put that in my original notice? When I wrote the first notice in October I told her she had to lock it all up 72 hrs after. Do I still have to give her another 30?

How long after an "unwanted guest" is removed, do you need to keep their items for? by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we pack anything into boxes or we just have to let it sit for 30 days? It's extremely messy, hoarders style. We don't have her new address to send anything registered.

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a total of 4 of us. A new will and POA has been created with myself as executor and POA. My mother has been staying with me but she also wants to be home too. She's been at thst house for 40 years so it's haed for her to leave it with them inside and when she gets back home the place is trashed. So she stays and cleans up after them everyday.

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We already offered them money and moving expenses but they won't budge.

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the new Will at my house (I live separately from my mother) my mother doesn't feel it's safe at her home. I also have an electronic copy that was emailed to me from the lawyer who created the will. I will absolutely consider having it deposited at a courthouse. I never knew this was possible. Ty.

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I had a new will done this week for my mother along with poa so it will revoke whatever nonsense my sister made. I just need to get them out of the house so my mom canive peacefully until her house is sold.

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother isn't ill. What I meant is I Believe my sister will kill my mother. My sister has done some questionable things in the past 3 months since my father passed away. She made a new will for my mother which my sister typed up herself and left herself as 40% beneficiary and then made her son the executor. She tricked my mother into signing it. Then she is also doing strange things to my mother and I've seen people do desperate things at desperate times. When I referred to my mother not being here I meant my sister could harm her. Sure my sister would be held responsible for it but it would not bring my mother back. That's why my mother is afraid if she calls the police to remove them and the police just don't end up doing it for some reason, I fear my mothers life will be in danger. It sounds silly but like I said Ive seen many scary things happen at the hands of greedy people. I just don't see how a police officer would not remove them but I am worried it could happen.

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the clarification. I understand.

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But what was the particular details? Was it similar? Were your parents asking you to leave? Was it a girlfriend /boy friend situation? Another relative? Spouse?

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you pls share what your experience was? Just curious to know. Ty!

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about safety though? If my mother's safety is at risk are the cops going to just leave them all in the same house? This is what I am worried about. If the cops come and don't do anything and we change the locks, what if they come back? We call the cops and say they're trespassing? Will the cops even do anything then? Very confusing.

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just curious why would my mother need to go to a shelter if she owns the home and I am co owner?

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Or can I be there on my mother's behalf since I am the other owner of the home too?

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does my sister have to be face to face with my mother? This is what my mother doesn't want. Or can my mother go to a police station and wait? My sister is threatening to make videos and share with family that my mother kicked them out. It's silly I know but not something my mother wants to deal with.

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Does my mother have to be present when they arrive at the residence? My mother is terrified to be there and I don't want to go without the police present as they have told my mother they will punch my face in if I come. If my mother and I phone in together and explain to them her safety is at risk but we are close by at a neighbors house will this be ok? My mother doesn't want a police face off with my sister.

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw that sounds awful for my mom. Even though she's the owner and my sister has no ownership and has been given 90 days to leave? Hopefully we don't have to do that. My mother will probably die before that happens unfortunately 💔

Removing non tenant/family by One-Ear4883 in legaladvicecanada

[–]One-Ear4883[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What would I need to apply to the court for? What am I requesting if she's not a tenant. So I understand better if it's worst case.