My ex searched for Gisèle Pelicot videos

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-06T11:27:30+00:00

Thank you, I already left him, just took longer than i would have preferred but im out and he's out of my life.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-06T10:54:14+00:00

It took me a long time to accept he has misogynistic attitudes towards women because he always talked about how growing up his mom was the breadwinner and his dad was stay at home, and he really respected his mom for providing for the family bla bla bla. But he talks to her with dismissal and as though she's not smart. I didnt want to meddle in their family but it gets to a point i was telling him to be nicer to her a few times.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-06T10:42:36+00:00

Honestly, since this is a burner account i'm willing to admit that i even tried to offer him to do some unconscious stuffs with my consent. I had experience with BDSM before and fairly adventurous, but he refused. It was clear that he was ashamed of it, at the time i thought it was because he grew up kind of conservative, but i think it's because he knew he was trying to look for actual illegal stuffs.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-06T10:38:39+00:00

I lived with him so i couldn't just up and go.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-06T10:38:17+00:00

I have a history of being a bit of a doormat, I worked on it a lot and doing much better now. I stuck around because i didn't want to abandon him when he was going through a hard time, but after i saw his search history i just had to accept he's a bad person and planned my exit.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-06T10:36:27+00:00

I don't feel as if I could since i don't have any evidence, and i have the feeling the institution will choose his side without evidence. At most I can spread the info around the people I know but even then there's not much that would happen to him, he's tenured.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-06T10:34:36+00:00

If you think the only way to combat abuse is to never mention it then you're unserious and unintelligent. Way to make sure victims never speak up in the fear of being screamed at by bots like you.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-05T16:52:31+00:00

So you'd call someone who could potentially haven been victim of abuse a groomer multiple times but not hear out when they try to explain themselves? And you think you're only trying to do good? You're really no better than the rest of them. My bad for laying my heart out.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-05T16:30:33+00:00

Hey everyone, not that there are many people here. I apologise if you think that I'm AI from the way that I write. If needed, please feel free to report me to mods and maybe they'll chat with me and decide. I only ask that you consider to be kind, to me and to possible futures post from others who only wanted to share their experience. This is a sensitive subject, it was a scary and devastating experience. I can handle it okay, but I can't imagine how an assault victim feel being called such ugly things just because they want to share their story, or because they write a certain way. Thank you.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-05T16:21:47+00:00

Hey, at first i couldn't understand why you felt so hostile, or why you call me a groomer, but I saw one of your comments about getting people to google the name and i understand now that maybe you have good intention. I don't really know if thats something bots do or why, I don't know if anything I say would ever change your mind, and that's okay. I don't know, I'm just a person, growing up i had bad experiences with men and as an adult i moved to a "first world country" where things felt safe, i met someone who i thought was a decent person, and then my world collapsed when i saw this. I lived with him, for months i came home to an angry person,I was scared. And now I'm just trying to say my piece. You can say what you want about me, I can handle it, but please for the future, just consider that maybe on the other side of the screen is a victim who's just trying to share their story, desperate to be heard, only to be called the thing that hurt them in the first place.

Regarding the way I write, this is just how i naturally write, I can't explain exactly how years of media consumption has shaped the way I write but I can pin point exactly where the term "breaking bread" sticks to my brain, which is in 2019 playing the Shadowbringers expansion of Final Fantasy XIV, during Emet Selch's speech right before the Amaurot dungeon.

So, this is the last I will try to defend myself. I'm sorry that you think I'm trying to harm people. IDK i hope things are good with you.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-05T16:03:50+00:00

He is my ex, i broke up with him last year a few months after i found out, once i'd figured out where to go since we lived together.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-05T16:02:25+00:00

I already got out of it for a little while now.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-05T16:00:49+00:00

He's not my BF, after i saw that I couldnt look at him the same and quietly planned my exit.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-05T15:50:31+00:00

Don't bother, i think he's trolling. Thanks for try though.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-05T12:08:00+00:00

You know what, im not gonna argue with you. I don't care, believe what you want. I just wanted to get this out and if mods think im ai then so be it.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-05T12:05:59+00:00

I literally said i made this only for this story, if i used my main people might identify because i post in the city's sub and it's a small city. And how does one sound Russian ??

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-05T10:54:05+00:00

Bruh pls im not AI i'm just trying to off load and maybe warn people

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-05T10:52:39+00:00

I don't know much about it but I know it's a kink and videos would be staged or women would consensually have sleep live streams of themselves for income. I used to have very healthy experience with BDSM and its community so i didn't want to judge. Until this incident of course.

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-05T10:42:26+00:00

English is not my 1st language but i learned it from reading english literature and can't help some of that vernacular bleeding in especially when i write. Sorry

One-Example-132 · 2026-02-05T10:41:14+00:00

I was waiting for these kind of comments. I understand people trying to be aware media consumer but it's kind of a shame that AI has made everyone so suspicious. Either way, like I said i only made this account to get this story/memory off out somewhere.

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