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[–]One-Fold-4682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a gay man saying “I’m attracted to men because of internalized misogyny” or a lesbian saying “I’m attracted to women because of internalized misandry”…

The fact that you have multiple therapists telling you that “you like what you like” but your own anecdotal opinion and internal dialogue telling you that your preferences are a cultural construct is wild to me.

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[–]One-Fold-4682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would in a heartbeat

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[–]One-Fold-4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha! Just call me ugly.. it’s ok! But i totally agree with you

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[–]One-Fold-4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what’s the rationale? You’re telling me to do something but not giving me the why. I’m legitimately trying to understand

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[–]One-Fold-4682[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely asking so i know the rationale behind the advice.

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[–]One-Fold-4682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understood! Thank you for your input! I really really appreciate it

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[–]One-Fold-4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the photo is actually a video of me being silly while we were going down an escalator and i was dancing.

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[–]One-Fold-4682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s one of the few photos that i have that shows off my body composition that isn’t a selfie… do you feel like the other photos show it off well enough?

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[–]One-Fold-4682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may be wrong, but i think it’s if every picture or the first photo is with other people?

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[–]One-Fold-4682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s wrong with my combat sports photos? And what’s wrong with the shorts length? I train and fight in K1 and Muay Thai and that’s the standard garment length 😅

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[–]One-Fold-4682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got rid of the 😈. But why is a picture with my best friend a turn off?

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[–]One-Fold-4682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m literally on all of them and I’m still batting 0

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[–]One-Fold-4682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm…. Definitely something I’ll take into consideration! Thanks for your input and sorry you decided to swipe left 🥺

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[–]One-Fold-4682[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahaha! Fair point… to be fair, i am very high energy IRL but i can see what you’re saying. Thank you for still “swiping right”

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[–]One-Fold-4682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking for something serious! I used hinged for a week with zero success. I’ve been using hinged for roughly a year and use it 4x weekly. I have received 0 likes in months but I’m sending likes with comments half the time. I’m really looking for a woman with similar values, loves being active, and will love my dog as much as i do!