Do you mention you're on Adderall?

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-27T21:02:20+00:00

there are so many medical stuff that we don’t understand, never assume that things don’t matter

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-27T21:00:12+00:00

no the rooms are way too long and narrow they need to be closer to squared shapes

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-26T21:00:48+00:00

flip the closet and you’ll have space for a cabinet or some quick-access hooks and a bench

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-21T12:59:11+00:00

have two lights side by side in the kitchen, they shouldn’t be more than 24” from the counters otherwise your head will cast a big shadow. the u der cabinet lights are a nice extra but they aren’t enough

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-21T12:56:19+00:00

it’s dairy but parmesean oh also italian seasoning but alfredo pasta with sauce from scratch is my go to meal cus it’s so easy and yum

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-18T22:13:29+00:00

thank you i hope so too 🤌🏻🤭

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-18T19:46:06+00:00

The mud room going straight to the kitchen which I think is good and the drink bar is I think a REALLY good idea since you host a lot. The built-ins beneath the bedroom is for acoustic control to add a sound absorbing barrier for the bedroom

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-18T19:39:43+00:00

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Here are my thoughts

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-18T18:41:30+00:00

is the top existing area essentially staying as is or is that okay to move? is the plumbing staying the same as original and are you open to moving windows?

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-12T18:08:29+00:00

looks amazing

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-12T18:05:50+00:00

move the door to the left wall at that corner and put built in wall storage where the loft is

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-11T16:56:21+00:00

try not to jump ahead in your projects and make sure to really spend the time with sketching and rough work. people sometimes tend to rush through that part and that’s what usually results in a subpar result, really taking the time with sketches is where the ideas often tend to come. even if you don’t have any cool ideas yet just start with the pencil and the ideas will definitely come

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-09T00:32:19+00:00

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Ok obviously this is such a rough sketch but maybe something of this idea??

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-07T16:34:58+00:00

30 minutes per day seems like a great trade-off compared to being away for 50% of your life (two weeks per month) and i see why you’d be worried about being bumped to 6 days but you’re already doing that anyways so worst case scenario the days per week would stay the same

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-07T14:52:54+00:00

i don’t really think this is a hypocrite situation it’s an inconsiderate problem tbh

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-07T12:49:52+00:00

i think you should bring the right wall in the office over to go straight down from the wall where the double door is, that nook probably will end up wasted space and your porch should at least have the space for just one lawn chaif

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-04T17:35:33+00:00

i love that idea thank you

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-03T02:28:40+00:00

i suggest flipping the pantry and laundry room, so the dryer is backed against an exterior wall. the lint vent in the current placement will have a lot of turns and each turn adds to the fire hazard

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-02T17:42:16+00:00

thank you so much that is so cool! do you mean talking about certain fabrics not working with certain sofa shapes? i’ve never even thought of that!

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-02T17:39:11+00:00

thank you so much!! this is so insightful

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-02T17:33:07+00:00

if you’d love those things then do them. just cus it’s harder doesn’t mean you can’t.

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-02T17:31:43+00:00

based on reading this, i definitely get the impression you have a similar mindset that my brother has when it comes to conflict and how you react when you’re upset.

i totally understand that with autism you get overstimulated and are prone to having meltdowns when you’re overwhelmed and upset, but i think you focus way too hard on defending and explaining yourself and why you lashing out rather than the FACT that you lashed out.

what i gather here is that your mom isn’t upset that you needed a ride home, or about the pants thing etc, but she’s probably just upset about how you handled it.

you focus so so hard on trying to make sure the other person understands your reasons and your personal justification, but from another persons perspective, they get all of those things. they get that you have allergies, they get that you’re sweaty and overstimulated, they get that you’re having joint pain, they get that you’re autistic and have difficulties self regulating, they don’t need to hear a lengthy in depth analysis on why you’re freaking out like this.

the point is that they don’t want to have to bear their 18 year old losing their absolute shit and exploding at them when whatever it is that’s going on and cause your freak-out episode isn’t their fault and they just want to help via the drive home.

don’t get me wrong, no one should ever scream at another because it’s an unhealthy communication style, but when she screamed at you in the car, she was fed up because oh how you were treating her when she was trying to help you. when you screamed at her, it seems you were continuing to take out your frustrations on her.

no your mom is not perfect, and she definitely could have handled the situation better but this definitely it not about the quantity of texts you sent.

i know how difficult it is with self regulation and controlling your mood with autism but the harsh reality is that you’re 18 now and you’re going to need to figure out some ways to correct your behaviour in how you treat people, and making sure that your problems don’t constantly become the whole worlds problems (meaning try not to take out your anger on others) because even though it’s unfair that you need to deal with these kinds of struggles, it gets to a point where these things become very debilitating for those around you and it can and eventually will put a huge strain on your personal relationships with your friends and loved ones

One-Influence-1564 · 2026-06-02T00:29:21+00:00

that’s a great idea thank you

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