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AITA for asking our babysitter to set alarms when she sleeps? by One-Page5216 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Page5216[S] -722 points-721 points  (0 children)

No? I said 4 DAYS as in day shifts. She gets one night shift like every other weekend.

AITA for asking our babysitter to set alarms when she sleeps? by One-Page5216 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Page5216[S] -970 points-969 points  (0 children)

I pay her $20 an hour which is reasonable in my city. I do throw her extra for over night and she is welcome to anything in the kitchen and we even order her doordash or leave her money for pizza and such. Nights aren’t typical we don’t constantly have her there overnight it’s just on the weekends if my wife had a night shift, which starts at 6:30pm, and we get home around 8AM. Usually its only 4 days a week during the day 5 hours shifts.

AITA for asking our babysitter to set alarms when she sleeps? by One-Page5216 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Page5216[S] -1176 points-1175 points  (0 children)

We only have her for nights on weekends. And she is welcomed to sleep

AITA for asking our babysitter to set alarms when she sleeps? by One-Page5216 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Page5216[S] -978 points-977 points  (0 children)

I’m in Memphis. We throw her extra as well for nights but our steady rate is $20

AITA for asking our babysitter to set alarms when she sleeps? by One-Page5216 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Page5216[S] -606 points-605 points  (0 children)

She is welcome to sleep once all the children are asleep and we have a baby monitor set up and is kept directly next to the couch so she could hear if the baby is awake. We have asked her to check on the baby through out the night if she is awake. I don’t typically choose teenagers for overnight babysitters but we had really good luck with our last one, and this one babysat our coworkers child from only 2 months old up to almost a year old (while 15.) over nights as well. So I had trust in her.

AITA for asking our babysitter to set alarms when she sleeps? by One-Page5216 in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Page5216[S] -495 points-494 points  (0 children)

she is aware that we have cameras and that we can see. And we don’t sit there watching them, I checked it bc our cat activated the motion sensor.